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I like my boyfriends best friend but he is going out with my best friend!

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Question - (16 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok.

My boyfriends best mate is going out with my best mate.

Confusing right?

Well.

I like my boyfriends best mate.

I drew a portrait of him.

I stare at his numbers.

I cry over him.

My heart literally aches.

I never felt like this before.

I think i love him, i really like him, alot.

I think about him all the time and my best

mate just dont know what shes got! She doesn't

know i like him, i dont intend her too.

She liked my boyfriend but she changed her mind

when i went for her boyfriend.I was SURE he liked

me as he was snuggling up to me in the park and stroking my hair. What put him off me?

Can you help me get over him?

P.S

My best mate actually wants another boy, but

shes trying to get over HIM.

Should i try and take her current boyfriend away frmo her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007):

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Well, now we're meeting my boyfriend,without

my best mates boyfriend but with my best mate,tomorow.

Should i tell him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007):

ok, this is a bit of an awkward situation. but if u keep ur feelings bottled up n stuff, its gonna make u feel worse. telling the truth is gonna hurt sum peoples feelings, but needs to be done!! the more u hide ur feelings, the worse itll be in the long run!! x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007):

oh my god....

ok for a start your just a kid and this sounds nothing more than a teen crush. the thing is youve spent so long thinking about this crush rather than doing what you should of been doing and thats working on a relationship with the guy your with.

you and your friend both need a slap, if your with someone then work on a relationship with them and stop looking for the bigger better deal. if you dont want that person in the first place why are you with them?

i feel very sorry for your bf as your obviously treating him as second best while looking at men you cant have. grow up and be a woman. if you dont want him dump him .

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