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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok I have a boyfriend and I love him very much. We have been together for over a year and we could not be happier. Where I work there is this guy. He just makes me feel up with butterflys when I see him, almost like I want to jump on him and rip all his clothes off. Is this normal? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): Hey...this is called sexual attraction. You love him, girl! Don't literally jump on him and rip his clothes off, but give him some surprises...Good luck! Cara -x-
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
If you are happy with your boyfriend, do not risk relationship for a quickie with a cutie!
Not worth it.
Keep it platonic to yourself only and it will pass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Yes it is natural and you are quite young to get settled with just one guy. Don't go any further with these thoughts and never ever tell your bloke if you want to keep him. There will be loads of lustings in the future.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Yes it is natural and you are quite young to get settled with just one guy. Don't go any further with these thoughts and never ever tell your bloke if you want to keep him. There will be loads of lustings in the future.
Take care
xx
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female
reader, Lilly223 +, writes (15 January 2007):
Well.... as long as you don't literally jump on this guy and rip all his clothes off, then yes, I would say it is normal. It's called sexual attraction. I'd advise you to not act on this attraction if you want to maintain that happy relationship with your boyfriend. Just because you think your co-worker is hot, doesn't mean you are cheating on your boyfriend...as long as you don't act on it. I'd also recommend that you keep this as your own little secret...no need to stir up anything unnecessary. I'd compare this to 'lusting' after a movie star... no harm done.
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