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writes: Hi there,Just wondered peoples opinions on this situation. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now I am having doubts because of something he did which to be honest made me feel very small.It was his birthday and we met up with his friends and went to a club. My guy had drunk quite a lot. He was standing at the bar and there was a girl who appeared and she was all over him at the bar. She put her arm round him and was running her hand up and down his chest obviously saying something pretty suggestive. He just stood there and let her do it and was all smiles. He didn't do anything but he was flirting with her and didn't push her away even though he was there with me! One of the other guys girlfriends noticed and went over and dragged him away from her. He then asked me if he was in trouble. I said 'no - don't worry about it', as I didn't want him to think I was jealous and that bothered. This has really put me off him and it makes me think if he does this when I am there what will he do when I am not!! Just wondered if you think this is unacceptable? All his friends were there and it made me look stupid. We are in our late 20's.Thanks xx
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Yes it made you feel small and I totally understand, I would feel the same. And yeah of course it's gonna bother you, some other girl is all over your man. But hey! He was drunk. Just don't think about it too much and push away the thoughts by saying "It's ok he was drunk. He didn't know what he was doing. He'd never do that if he was sober, he was under the influence. I'm not bothered" Whenever the negative thoughts come into your mind just say that to yourself.As long as it doesn't happen again then it's ok. Make sure the next time you're out with him every girl in the place knows that he's your man and any girl that tries it will regret it. Make sure you're so intimidating that no girl would dare. lol. Don't let it happen again. :)
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 I assume she approached him. Most guys are flattered by such attention. Did he say whether he knew the girl from before? If he went with you and left with you, that's a good sign. You told him not to worry about it, and that's probably the best thing for you to do. . . don't worry about it. If it becomes a pattern of behavior, then you can start to worry. Until then, enjoy yourself.
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