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writes:Well i like this guy and everyone at school told me that he liked me to and he even asked me to the movies but i found out that he has a girlfriend in a city that is three hours away he told my friend that he liked me but basically using me as a back up in case things withhis girlfriend dont work out all i want to know is what i should do and if he still has felings for me well what do you think? I REALLLY LIKE HIMM ALOT!!!
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reader, x..HelpfulWun..x  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Girl, you aint worth this. find someone better go out with them and if he says ' i thought you were my girlfriend' just say 'your my back up plan...' and really Embarrass him in frount of his mates, and dont feel bad because thats what he has been doing to you .
You'll feel way much better
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 yes dear you have to drop him he's treating u mean
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 January 2007):
 By saying you're his back up girlfriend he's saying your his second choice. You deserve someone who puts you number one at all times, not someone who you make an okay second prize for if the first prize thing doesn't work out. Don't let him take advantage of you like this.
CD
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (19 January 2007):
 You may like him a lot but he doesn't. He has a girlfriend so he is not taking you seriously.
Do not settle for being second best. Get a boy that will like you for yourself not when he gets bored.
You may get hurt later on as feelings get stronger.
This boy if he was decent, he would end a relationship before starting another. Stand your ground and have more respect for yourself now that you know the truth. You have the upper hand to decide how important you are to yourself. Look after number 1!
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reader, CrazyChavBaby +, writes (19 January 2007):
you really need to think about this one babe cos i got myself into this situation once and i fell in love with him i was sleeping with him and he had a girlfriend. he used to come to me when they had a row or split up but he would always go back to her. and this could be the same thing so u need to make things clear now. you need to tell him you are not going to be his bit on the side and that if he likes u then he has to dump his girlfriend and u will c for urself what he really wants and how much he does like you. if he doesnt dump her then forget about him there are loads a gr8 men out there and if he does dump her you know he really does like u and wants more than a bit of hit and miss. Good luck and let me know ow things go xx take care xx
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reader, eternalleroze  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 helloooooooooooooooo!
wake up smell the coffee!!!
are you willing to let someone use u ??? worse as a back up ? what happened to your self worth ? Please , i am sure you are a wonderful person , and not some handicapped piece of furniture that is a back up !!!
Tell this guy what you found out and tell him you are not " store in case of a rainy day " material!!
Girl you are worth so much more , spread your wingas and find a guy you LOVE and who LOVES you back with the same ardour!! one who is worthy of you :)
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