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writes:I was originally not a member and I posted a question, now I have joined and my problem is still here and I need some help. My problem is this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-more-than-she-knows-what.htmlNow I have told her the next day how I feel. I said to her:"my problem is I'm madly in love with you but you love **." She replied "Im really sorry, but I can't help your feelings. I know this isn't particularly sympathetic but still. I'm not in love with him anyways, I just like him." Then I promised I would try my hardest for monday as I had urged her to go out this day because it was her 18th birthday and even though she went out on saturday for a party I suggested that we hang out and she seemed to really like that idea. On the day she hadn't seemed to arrange something then said to me "i dont want to go" I asked why and she said it was cause the only two people who could go where me or her boyfriend, and she didnt want to go with me as she said we would argue all night, she didnt want to go with both cause she was worried I'd do something stupid. I also found out that it turns out her boyfriend and her friend from the party on saturday could tell I was in love with her. I am angry that even though I spent so much time with her during 2006, whenever she was depressed it was me who cheered her up, when she was lonely it was me who kept her company. Now this guy comes and it seems like that was just useless. I also am angry at her boyfriend, as he did not show much tact. He knew I couldnt take them hugging and holding hands, but that didnt stop him from doing it in front of me, he already has her he doesnt need to rub it in my face. She claims to love me as a friend but if she loved me as a friend she would have invited me to go out, if she loved me as a friend she would have left her boyfriend for deliberately making me feel bad. I don't know what to do now, Im anrgy at her for all of this and I still have feelings and I would do anything to be with her.sorry for the length.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (9 January 2007):
 she has rejected you, and now ure angry that she let you down..youre still young and plenty more fish in the sea hun, i think you would be best walking away from this and think about youre happiness without her in youre life..she obviously doesnt care enough for you or she would havent of done the things she has..she doesnt see you as a partner ure just a friend and it seems thats the only thing youll get from her..as i said best thing i would do is walk away and dont be angry its not worth it hun, more to life hunnie hope this helps just my opinion xx A
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