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writes: I just saw an email from a girl to my boyfriend, i don't know if i'm being way too sensitive, but in the email she says. "I so need to see the sun. I want to get out of town. Seriously. Some place hot?" is she trying to attract my boyfriend or am I thinking too much? Is she trying to make my boyfriend have naughty thoughts about her? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Whoa... sounds like an e-mail I just sent to my MOTHER. I need to get out of town. I need to see the sun. I need to go someplace hot! (I'm thinking Jamaica... yeahhh....)
Is your boyfriend a trustworthy guy? If he is, he still is. THis doesn't sound dirty in the least. Just like the girl needs a tan!!
xxIndia
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 I REALLY REALLY think you're reading too much into it, unless like the above noter says your boyfriend has access to a house somewhere hot. I think it's an innocent comment to be honest.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Me thinks yo're reading a little toooooooo much into that one statement. Is ther more?
Let's break it down...."I so need to see the sun" ( I've got the winter blahs )...
"I want to get out of town. Seriously. Some place hot?"......(I live in a cold,damp,dreary place. I haven't been outside since I blew the candle out on the halloween pumpkin. I want to go away to a warmer climate for a vacation)
Does your boyfriend live in a warm place? Does he own a bed and breakfast, hotel etc in the sunny south of some tropical place? You really need to have more "evidence" than that if you want to make your case.
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reader, Badger_Simon +, writes (14 January 2007):
 This is a question that really doesnt have a definate answer. It would be possible for anyone to know for sure what the motives of the girl really are. What I would focus on is how your boyfriend reacts to this. I could read that and take no sexual connotations at all but other people can. Does your boyfriend know you went through this mail, because if he didn't then I really think you have to evaluate just how close you two are. If the issue here is more insecurity and paranoia, rather than some girl emailing him. Then you two need to sit down together and talk this through, tell each other how you feel and hopefully you will respect each other so much more because of it.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 It doesn't sound like it to me. It sounds like she just wants to go on vacation.
Darn, I would sure like to go to the Caribbean and fry on the beach now as well.
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