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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London b...

My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. ...

I feel awful because he has slept with a lot more people than I have.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a much older man. I am 28, and he is 48. We have been together for six months. He told me yesterday that he has slept with about 35 people!. Do you think that's a lot, even for someone his age?. I lost my virginity to him, ...

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please d...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who ...

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

The perfect partner that does one thing you cannot forgive....has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Does anybody ever think someone would of been perfect for you if they just hadn't done that one thing you can't forgive? I wanted to marry my ex-boyfriend but he damaged my pride and made me feel unattractive. He didn't do it on purpose, buf it cuts ...

My boyfriend is planning a vacation with his ex-wife, for their daughter's sake. Should I be upset?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend of about 9 months said that he and his ex-wife were planning to take their 5 year old daughter on vacation to Disneyworld. They've been divorced for a few years, and live about three hours apart, but share equal custody of the ...

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

I'm starting to question my friendship with my gay best friend... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So my gay best friend hung out with me today, since he's in town (he lives in AZ, I'm in cali). We used to date, but we only kissed once, and it was one of those preschool kisses that were just us smashing our face together. It didn't last long, and ...

If I get the chance to return to his state again, should I try to find out if he still likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My ex and I dated for 6 months and we broke up 1.5 years ago. But for the past 6 months I think about him all the time. Every day I dream about what it would be like if we could start over. Our relationship was long distance. I was a freshman at the ...

Is he messing with me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - well it seems i got a small problem . this guy i had been talking to has decided to contact me again . he decided that he an his son didn't want him to date anyone so i ask him what did he want to do an he said i guess say good bye , his wife died ...

Should I write her a msg and tell her everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Last year, a guy from college messaged me (i've been out of school for 5 years) and we were never close, just acquaintances. We were facebook friends and last year he randomly told me that he broke up with his college girlfriend. I remember seeing ...

I feel like it's a bad idea but ......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - ok I have a situation... I'm just not sure about. I recently started talking to my ex bf again.. he was flirting with me and kinda asked me out again (second time since i broke up with him nearly 4 years ago. lst time i said no after asking friends ...

Too soon to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I was with a guy for over a year. Without going too much into that relationship- we got engaged at the very end and were only engaged for a few weeks. Being engaged to him made me realize that something was not right between us. I didn't want to ...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

My ex now likes men and it's killing me inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I am a woman and I was engaged to another woman for 2 years. She left me about 4 months ago for reasons that she won't even tell me. My best guess is that she had a break down. But she really won't say. We share our dog and trade her every other ...

Should I tell my current boyfriend about the trouble with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone :) Please give some advice from an outside perspective as I am stressing out! I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years (mainly emotional, some physical). It was like a cycle and everytime I tried to leave he'd cry, promise...

Boyfriend has pictures of his ex's on his laptop and wont get rid of them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My bf keeps pics on his laptop of his exes. I could understand them being put away in a box or on a hard drive. It makes me feel like they are there to gain easy access to them and makes me feel second best. I have spoke to him and tried to explain. ...

My fiance's ex wife got to sit with his family at the funeral, and wore her wedding ring that day! Am I right to be hurt by this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I don't know what to think of this and would like opinions. My fiance's father died in Jan. Both his ex-wife and I attended the funeral and we were both civil. I was a little hurt by the fact that his ex deposited herself squarely in the front row ...

How can a guy tell if his girlfriend is over her last long term relationship? What are the signs to look out for to see if she has fully moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - how to tel if a woman is over her last long term relo? Got involved with new girl, we been togather 8 months now , previous to me she was in 4 year relationship. but just wondering what are the signs to see if she has fully moved on (without secr...

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about hi...

Why do guys keep talking about their ex girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - why do guys just keep talking about their ex gf ? it seriously hurts me a lot. I have a very good guy friend , i have feelings for him . but he doesnt want to date me. And he keeps talking about his ex gf. ...

Why does my ex look at me like he's looking into my soul?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Everytime i come across my ex, if he see's me and i see him he looks deep into my eyes and holds it without blinking and it feels like he is looking into my soul, it s so strange, he even does it if he is with his girlfriend aswell, what does it ...

Why is he texting me?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the ...

Should I get back with my ex with the hope that he really has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. He felt we could work through what we had, but I was tired of him saying he would change and not seeing any attempts/difference. We were together for just over a year. The reason I broke it also is because ...

Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the ...

I realized I desperately love my ex and want him back in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Hi friends. . . I am in a relationship with a guy. Before that, I was committed to my ex boyfriend. He loved me very much and was loyal. But I had only one problem with him. He was too busy in his buisness and didnt give much time to me. While my b...

If I leave him alone for a couple of weeks, will he realise he loves me and come back? Or are his feelings truly gone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I split just over 2 weeks ago after a 7 month relationship. We were very in love but it ended due to a very bad fight. After the split, he and I have had small contact every day leading to today except one. We had a conversation ...

Willing to leave my husband for my new man, but I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex! Should I pursue a future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I am 29 year old married woman with a son and I’m currently in a relationship with another man. I work in this company and I met this amazing guy a couple of years ago and we became friends and at that time we don’t have anything in between us yet ...

So please tell me, what could my ex be thinking based on his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago (he said he couldnt commit to a relationship right now what with ridiculous work hours and other commitments) which was understandable- the break up happened after we had an argument about these issues ...

Should I just consider her gone from my life forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

22 June 2012 (M) - My ex now broke up with me like 3 months ago and is now with someone else but still think about here every day and i'm not sure if is hould contact her because before when i emailed her she didn't reply and she delated me from facebook. and has ...

My Ex asked to have lunch then after that she ignored me. Did I get played for a laugh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - I'm a little confused about this situation and need some advice. My Ex-Girlfriend from about 1 1/2 years ago moved back into town a few months ago. She added me on skype and wanted to be friends again, well I wasn't sure about this at first beca...

What do you do if you are in love with two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Well im 15 years old, and I have a pretty interesting story I guess, :/ well I currently have a boyfriend, and I LOVE him to death, now you people might say its puppy love , but wen im in love, IM IN LOVE. well my boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ...

Do you think he really only wants to be my friend, or could he want me to go out with him again, or do you think he might just be after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Do you think my ex still likes me ?. I heard from one of his friends that he told them that he regretted that we broke up last year, and that he thinks a lot of me. He called me out of the blue last weekend, as he had seen me out in a pub with my ...

I need to move on. But still feel connected to him. What's going on with him? Is there a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4570 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - I need some help to get over the love of my life and move on. We've got such a complicated history. He always used to act as if he liked me but denied it, however there was a lot of problems back then. Then various things happened to suggest ...

Why does every boy I meet end the relationship so soon? Is it me? Or is it the abuse my ex gave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - Heya, this may sound silly as partly it's my own fault but just so fed up. Right it all started with my ex. He used to make out I was lucky to be with him, he use to say things like: "You should be grateful I'm with you because no one else ...

I don't trust my boyfriend because of his ex! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy fro 3 months now and things are awesome with him! I feel great when I am with him. But I have a huge insecurity when it comes to his sons mom. I know they had strong feelings for each other but I also know he really ...

Do you wait to get over an ex completely before starting a new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - Is it normal to still have feelings for an ex while getting into the next relationship? And let the lingering feelings for the ex die completely as you get to know this new person? Does this happen a lot with people? Or is it better to comple...

Is it a bad idea to go out with a carbon copy of my ex/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

20 June 2012 (M) - So I met this girl online that seem like almost a younger carbon copy of my ex. Is it healthy for me to go out with her or will it just keep the ex in my mind?...

Maybe I shouldn't have allowed my sister and mother to have an opinion about him and the cross-dressing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - Well what a few weeks its been having written about my ex on here, and saying i wasnt going to see him again... well i went on a date with another guy which ended in disaster well actually me telling the guy to go forth... as he made a remark about ...

I like my friend's ex, this will never work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - Help me! My best friend's ex just told me that he likes her again and wanted me to tell her. So I did. A few days later, I realized that I really do like her ex. I have a boyfriend, and I feel like I'm betraying not only my boyfriend, but my best ...