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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I really feel the pressure of school and work, became too much for him and it was easiest for him to dump me. Should I tell him I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in April after dating for just over a year. He broke up with me but wanted to maintain a friendship. We have done the post-breakup sex thing but have also managed to spend some time together just hanging out and being ...

Help! I love my girlfriend, but can't seem to get over my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I had a horrible fight with my g/f of 2 yrs. and she was in the process of packing up her things up until I talked her into staying. When I was out of town, she was copying some of our picturs onto a CD when she ran across a CD I had stored some old ...

Why would my fiance want to leave me for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My fiance and his ex-girlfriends shares a son together. things are awesome between us, maybe fought twice in 3 years. He was with his ex for 10 years and they fought almost everyday. we are 3 months from getting married. His ex confessed to him ...

Should I feel threatened by his ex gf calling him all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months ex-girlfriend is constantly calling him or texting him. The thing is they were together for 4 1/2 years lived together so yes there are some issues that they need to speak on the phone. They are also on the EMS squad and ...

My ex is using me for sex, but I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hi I was with my ex for a few months. Then we split up but he said he still liked me afterwards and we did sexual things together. He messed me around basically. Soon after we would do something toegther he woudn't want to do anything and woudn't ...

My girlfriend allows her ex and her kids to talk to her like she is a dog

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend has been divorced since 1998 and has two boys. She still pays his bills for him (ex husbands), cleans his pool, and allows him to talk to her like she is a dog. If he calls her and she don't answer, he will call until she does. He lies ...

I am getting mixed messages about me and him and his ex and her kid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have met this bloke, have known him for about a month now. When i first met him i thought he was really nice but i had just came out of a relationship and didnt really want to jump back into another one. Anyway he made every effort to get wi...

Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...

I wanna get over him, but I don't know how to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I had my first boyfriend and I dumped him because his ex still liked him and people seemed to care too much about other people's trouble. It just got way too complicated so I ended it. Like a week after I dumped him I was told he wanted to get back...

Will being friends with her make it impossible to get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Will being friends with her make it impossible to get over her? i was with my gf for a year i loved that girl more then anything. but then i got real drunk and received and have oral to another girl. i told my gf but she didnt say much but asked...

why is my ex still lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi i have written quite afew times about my now ex partner and how he has treated me.i.e first he had a "fling" wanted me out of our home; then decided we should make a go of it .. then a few months later, he decided he wanted me out again - so...

My boyfriend is now divorced and has said to me he will never marry again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 years. We are both very serious about each other (we’re both in our mid 20s). It really bothers me that he sounds like he will never get married again. He was married when he was 19 and has a kid ...

am i wasting my time????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hey ...i broke up with an ex a while ago(+/-2months)...and it really hurt..i didnt feel it was over ....but she claimed she needed time alone..oh well it killed me but i slowly started to get over the initial pain...but never stopped loving her... ...

Ex angry that I brought a male friend to a party

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Was it wrong of me to bring a new male friend to my friends birthday party when my ex was there? I didnt know that he was going to be there, none of our mutual friends said anything to me about him coming. I felt kinda bad for my ex, but me and this ...

Should I keep begging my ex to come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated to be more clear i merely sent a message saying hello how r u to a feamle on the internet i did this once b4 and she was mad but she ...

My girlfriend is pregnant with my baby, but I'm not in love with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - ok i'm 21, my girlfriends 7 months pregnant and i stay with her and her parents. one problem i'm not in love with her, i'm in love with my ex who is also in love with me. my girl is a great person i just don't think she's the one for the rest of my ...

How can I overcome feeling insecure around my boyfriend's ex?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Ok please help me out here... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months. anyway i went to a club with him a few nights ago and met his ex for the first time. she was stunning, to say the least. even after just having a child(2 mnths ago wit hi...

Do I leave my new gf to go back to the ex gf? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - I was engaged to a girl who i was with for 3 years who i loved very much about 6 months ago she decided to finish it and i was gutted. Since the time apart i tried to persuade her to give us another go but she said she was'nt ready and wanted to be ...

Should I try and resume the relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I went out with a guy for about five years. We broke up once during those five years and got back together again. About two years after that we had some problems that we didn't resolve, and he moved to the US. We recently communicated and i got th...

What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship? Last year I met a guy who rocked my world, in the sense that we had so much in common, had so much fun together, he was a sweetheart and seemed to share similar opinions and mor...

How can I get him to trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is leaving me because he cant trust me anymore. he saw a comment i left for an ex on myspace although we are just friends and have been friends for years. we dated about 6 years ago. my current boyfriend didnt want me to keep in touch ...

Am i being petty when it comes to my brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Now a month ago i split from a year long relationship and after a bit of a rocky ride things are settling down after he admitted he had lied a few times during the reltionship. Nothing major, just little things. Which i kinda knew, my instincts ...

She needed space to work out her feelings for me and her ex; I've heard nothing back from her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

28 July 2007 (?) - Hi, I met a girl about a month ago. She is almost everything I could want in a woman and we spend alot of time talking things over about how drawn we both are to each other. She had only been apart from her ex' of 4 years for a couple of months a...

I have a boyfriend, but I just realized I'm not over my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - i left my boyfriend we werent happy any more and started seeing a guy id fallen for. that was 6 monhs ago and i love him very much. my ex has a new girlfriend and when he told me i was so crushed i realise i still do love my ex. not cos im jealous ...

My ex contacted me saying she had made a terrible mistake, thing is I still love her but can't hurt the new girl I'm with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I wrote in a while ago because my ex fiancee and myself split up, we was together for 3 years and I still very much loved her and I was advised to give her space because the split was her choice. In the time apart we still spoke to each other but I ...

Could my ex have been right? Is she really going to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - My ex-girlfriend (whom I can't stand) and I got into a fight the other day (this isn't the first time this has happened) so I blocked her on AIM. A few days later she told my girlfriend about the fight and she said she was going to dump me. I ...

He spends far too much time round at his ex's house and I feel I can't put up with it any longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we don't live together but we spend a couple of nights each week at each others home. I love him very much. He is very quiet and I'm the opposite I guess. I'm beginning to get bored as he rarely makes me ...

I did ask to see him this weekend but he never called me. I feel like my world is ending as all my friends have boyfriends and now I have no one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - hi I'm Katie, I'm 20 years old and was in a relationship for the past year and half, I loved my partner very much and I decided I would not carry on my career I have always wanted to do so I could make it work with him, as I would ha...

I have no idea what I should do about this. Can anyone help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I have no idea what I should do about this. After years of denying her feelings, my first love confessed how much she loved me. We originaly split up after she cheated on me and got her mate to call me while she was having sex with someone else. ...

I broke up with him but now I want him back, trouble is he's not answering my texts now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I was with this commitment phobic guy for 7 months, we really hit it off, and there was talk of moving in together, he kept messing about saying he didn't know what he wanted. He didn't treat me too well and after a while, started making excuses ...

I still like my ex-girlfriend, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I recently went on a trip with about 30 friends. My last 4 girlfriends were there but i havent spoken to two of them in years, the other one was my best mate but things just didnt work out and we had a messy breakup but the other one I always have ...

My ex left me and I lost my virginity to another girl; my ex is now back on the scene. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I am 20 years old, and I am going nuts now. My first ex left me for Bible college (pastor's daughter) and we never spoke for about a year, then I started dating this other girl, for almost 2 years and we lost our virginity to each other about a ...

My husband and I divorced 7 years ago, and I dont want him back. Why am I sad he is dating then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I have known my husband for 20 years and we have 2 kids. We split up 7 years ago but have remained very close - even sleeping together from time to time. Since we split up neither of us has been out with anyone else - until last week when he told ...

Urgh! I think I messed up! I asked to see her and she said no. Now I have lost any control I had!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. (I posted this on my latest question, but have decided to *bump it up* so to speak by putting it in the form of a new question) Just wanted to update you all to say, I think I've let you all, and myself down. Last night, my ex ca...

My ex wont even talk to me and I just want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 5 years almost 6 months ago.. I still love him but it was a bitter ending and he won't speak to me anymore. He always told me no matter what happened he would always be there for me if i needed to talk and that no one would ...

He said hes not over his ex so we broke up, what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone - I was in a relationship with a guy for a month he had been chasing me for 4 months but i wasnt sure as didnt think a guy could like me that much....!! We started seeing each other and would make sure to meet me 2 or 3 times a week and ...

Still in turmoil over my ex, I want to date her, but dont think shes ready, but I cant let go!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I'm having trouble dealing with my ex-gf -- we had dated for a short while, wasn't too much into each other, then broke up when it was time to graduate from school and we had moved to different places. We have a somewhat odd relationship with each ...

Do I ignore what the world thinks and do what my heart says?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I recently ran into my ex. We hit it off, and we started hangin out again. I strongly believe that she is an amazing person, but my family and friends think otherwise because we had a rough going of separate ways. The world truly is against us ...

Why is my ex-boyfriend always on the phone?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He still comes over to my house and we still mess around sexually. but everytime i call him he is on the phone. he always says he is talkin to one of his guy friends. when he gets off the ...

I still love my ex-boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - About 4 months ago now I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months because I couldn't deal with the stress going on in his/our lives. He had gotten a girl pregnant before he met me and although I knew about it the whole time, it didn't become real to ...

What can I do to get him back after breaking the trust more than once?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend just recently found out that I was still communicating with an ex I dated years ago. There is nothing between us but I promised not to keep contact with him more than once and this was the final straw. My boyfriend says he can't trust ...

My ex is being mistreated and I dont know how to help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend from 3 years ago has been dating a bi sexual girl for a year and a half. Hes 27, shes 36. He is completely smitten with her and admits he always wants to be like her. Anyway numerous times she has cheated on him with other guys, ...

Should I send my ex a birthday card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend 15 months ago. He was the love of my life. We slept together twice after we broke up. He then met someone else in Jan and she moved into his house for four months. They split up after she began going through his ...

I want to be with my boyfriend, But cant cut all ties with my (ex)husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 6 yrs. I had intimacy problems with my husband, I felt guilty after having sex and never wanted to recollect those moments. I met this guy after my third anniversary and became friends, eventually i started loving him, he is ...

Why does this break up hurt so much so long after!? How can I make it stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for almost two years. Over the course of those two years we went through a lot of very difficult time (he was diagnosed with cancer and went through chemo). A few months after his treatment was over, we were cruising along ...

How can I stop being so angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Few weeks ago split from a yr long r.ship. We are in our 30's. He had only just split with someone when we met. She caused him a few probs but after couple of months we heard no more. Or so i thought. I didnt ever feel i could trust this guy but my ...

An old GF wants to get together. Should I take a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

25 July 2007 (M) - So a girl I went out with a few times in college, about 5 years ago, (we went out on a few dates but really didnt work out and no hard feelings afterward) and was somewhat friends a little while thereafter the few dates we went on...emailed me out ...

I dont believe in giving cheaters second chances, but I kind of want to with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - okay well firstly i have quite a harsh perspective of realationships if someone ceats on me then its over with them offcourse it takes time for me to get over them but i can. if someone ceats on me with a mate of mine then i get make out with them ...

I've been thinking about taking my ex's pictures and friendship off my Facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hello everyone, I've been broken up with my ex for a little over a month now, and while I have maintained NC with her, save when she has talked to me a couple of times, I find myself constantly checking her Facebook page. I want to see who is wr...

His horoscope said 'an ex is back'! How much validity do you think this has?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Things have been going beautifully between my b/f and I for the past few months, after much stress over an ex-girlfriend that took him 4 years to get over because he insisted on remaining friends with her, even though she's manipulative, intrusive ...