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male
age
30-35,
*r poop
writes:hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated to be more clear i merely sent a message saying hello how r u to a feamle on the internet i did this once b4 and she was mad but she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i have begged and pleaded for her to come back to me i love her and dont know why i did it. Should i continue begging her or sholud i leave her alone
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reader, nevets122  +, writes (31 July 2007):
you have every right to talk to who ever you want in a relationship or not in one. even if it is a female. aslong as you dont go any further than a friend with this girl your ex has no right to tell you who you can talk to, to be honest i dont think your ex has matured enough to be in a relationship, i think you should stop asking her to come back.
you can either have her and no friends or have freinds and no her.
it seems with her you cant have both.
choose freinds because if anything happend to you two again "if" you got back together you would have no-one to fall back on, and you'll feel really alone and you dont want to feel like that.
like they say girlfreinds come and go freinds last forever!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): that is so not a reason to get angry about. she sounds li;ke a compleat controle freek and if you cant eve nsay hello to people then u are about 1 million times better off with out her.
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reader, LauraE +, writes (30 July 2007):
Hi,
If you only said “hello”, you weren’t cheating. No one has to give up speaking to the opposite sex because they are in a relationship. Even married people have friends of both sexes, so at your age, this attitude is particularly silly. Your girlfriend was in the wrong, not you. Probably she is insecure because of her age. In time, she will learn that you don’t own someone just because you are their girlfriend or boyfriend. To be honest, I think that your relationship has come to a natural end. She has probably used the message that you sent as an excuse to end it. It is hurting badly at the moment, but you will feel better sooner than you realise. It might be best not to try to be just-good-friends with her just yet, because that will be painful for you. Get out with your mates, and try to keep contact with her to a minimum until you are over her.
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