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writes:I was engaged to a girl who i was with for 3 years who i loved very much about 6 months ago she decided to finish it and i was gutted. Since the time apart i tried to persuade her to give us another go but she said she was'nt ready and wanted to be on her own.We still talked on a fairly regular basis since being apart however i started seeing someone new and tried to move on but in the last week my ex as told me she still loves me and wants to give us another go now i still know i love her and i never stopped but as i have been seeing someone else its left me very confused because i couldnt hurt this new girl because she stood by me when my ex left and as really been there for me. So i could use some good advice on this situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): hi my names claire me and my fiance was in the same situation him and his ex was still speaking and i stood by him through everything i knew he still loved her but give it time and be really honest with your new g/f otherwise you might end up loseing her as your ex could just want you to be single so if something goes wrong she can click her fingers and you come back to her dont hurt your new g/f like that ive been through it it hurts like hell regards claire
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reader, elitzabeth  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 I think that you should follow your instints... Be honest though.. do no leave any of the girl hanging with out knowing what is going on.. Belive me, the truth is better than lying... My advice though is to take a break from both of the girls and think things throughly before making any decicions
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Unfortunately people get hurt sometimes but she wouldn't want you to stay with her just out of sheer gratitude. If you love someone else then you aren't doing anybody a favor by ignoring it. If you think you and your ex can make a go of it then let your current girlfriend down as gently as possible and go hook up with the ex. This is the whole purpose of dating.
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