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writes:Was it wrong of me to bring a new male friend to my friends birthday party when my ex was there? I didnt know that he was going to be there, none of our mutual friends said anything to me about him coming. I felt kinda bad for my ex, but me and this guy we're just friends so I didn't think that it was bad or rude. he now apparently thinks that I am the worst person in the world for bringing this guy with me and told me off for an hour later over the phone. My ex has a new gf, although he had her wait to come over until after I left the party. which it wouldn't have bothered me if she were there. we have been broken up for 6 weeks and were together for 4 years. Did I do a bad thing for bringing a friend with me to a party? I have fooled around with this new guy when we first met, but not any more. Neither of us want a relationship and consider each other just friends. I'm not necessarily looking for advice here, just people's opinions on whether I was in the wrong or not to bring a friend to a party when I was told it was ok to bring him. thanks guys.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 I would of said maybe a bit of tact IF he hadnt already met someone new, blimey people move on so quick these days.But if your mates said it was ok to bring your friend then theres no problem, are you suppose to be telapathic and know he would be there? What a shame he didnt bring his girlfriend from the start. Wonder what she thought of him ringing you later for an hour too! loooerrr heheAll the bestC xxxx
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Who course he wrong. He is your EX. Therefore you have the right to hang out with anyone you want. Hes just being a child
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reader, shivon1705 +, writes (30 July 2007):
 ov course your not in the rong!you ex needs to move on your intial to have a life hes no longer with you in that way, if you want to hang about with other guys thats really nothing to do with him anymore hun, if u let him carry on his going to pull you apartyou shouldnt have to take this crap from hin sweetyyou have your own life to live and the sooner he accepts that the better it is for the both of youhe has a girlfriend yet your not aloud a friend? hes out of order and needs to moove onhope this helped hunxxx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Of course you did nothing wrong. Your Ex apparently doesn't understand what being broken up means. It means you are free to come and go wherever and whenever and with whomever you wish. Sheesh you shouldn't having even talked to him for an hour let alone put up with all the crap. I pity his new girlfriend.
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