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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...

Do I tell her or wait or wait for an exs cousin to tell her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My mother had my ex boyfriend arrested when I was 16. He was 20. He was mad at me for a little while for her finding out. I live with my grandmother nad I still sneak around just to see him. My birthday is in 12 days and I won't have to worry about ...

Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, ...

Is it ok for your ex to date her friends ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone when you ex girl dates her good friends ex boyfriend, isn't that ruff?...

How do I convince my ex wife to be checked by doctors? She says she is too busy.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - My ex wife has lumps in her breasts, yet refuses to seek treatment. She is quite small chested and is worried that her breasts will not fit onto the mammogram machine. She is 26 and has 3 children. She also has never had a cervical smear, despite ...

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but ...

He doesn't want to be my bf yet. I think it's because he still likes his ex..Am I right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I think he still likes his ex. It's been 3 months sincve they broke up and he still thinks he;s not ready for another relationship soon. When I asked him if he misses her he said yeah, sometimes. He said he's not ready for a relationship cuz he just ...

He still likes his ex..is that why he's not ready to commit to an exclusive relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've been seing this guys for about two weeks. I like him and he says he likes me too. We're exclusive and not seing anyone else, but I wanna make it official. I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend. He said it's too soon, and that he JUST got ...

We still do all the stuff we did as a couple..just that now there is no committment! Am I setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - im 18, my ex-bf broke up with me more than 2 months ago, he wanted space and told me i was too clingy and he didnt want the responsibility. Thing is we've stayed friends and getting closer and closer each day. I've tried to simply move on a...

Do I tell his new gf that he and I had sex? Does she really need to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I've never felt so guilty in all my life. I slept with my ex (who i still have feelings for) who has a new gf. They'd only been going out for 2 days, but she's my age (16) and a virgin. What if they end up having sex? Everyone wants their first time ...

Am I going to be alone forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My first love and I have been seeing each other since high school, I'm 34 now and recently divorced again...My ex has been married to the same woman all this time, however we have never really quit seeing each other. Now that I'm single I'm having ...

I want to lose my virginity to my ex, how do I ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up back in August. I took it really hard, even though we only went out for a month. She went away for a month after that, and then when she came back, we hooked up twice. Now it's about 5 months later, and we haven't ...

I'm staying friends with her as I'm hoping to spark her feelings for me back up!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - I am 21 and have recently mutually split from a long term relationship (4 yrs) where everything appeared to be lasting for life with ambitions of marriage and kids as we both loved each other immenseley. She fell out of love with me over a long ...

His ex hates me and doesn't want the kids around me. I think he should stand up to her! Am I right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - please help! i've been with my bf for 4yrs, thing is he has 3 kids to his ex wife she's an alcoholic and is never sober. well one night the police called my bf to say that they were bringing the kids down as his ex wife was lying blacked so my ...

Do I just leave it and get on with my life or fight for my man???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i were going out for 3 years and we have a son. last year i cheated on him it was a drunken mistake and i feel really bad he found out and he was ok till one day he kicked off at me and said that he didnt think he loved me anymore ...

Should I be worried that he now works at the same place as his ex of 7 years???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, my bf and I have recently got engaged. Its been a tough yr for both of us and we're happy.However, my partner has accepted a new job working for the same company as his ex of 7yrs. Now he's saying how weird it is bumping into her and ...

We stopped being friends and sleeping together when he got a new girlfriend til the other night...Whats going on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. We then had a complicated and stupid situation of being sex buddies/friends. He said he wanted to stay single and so do I, even though I know that if he wanted to give us another go i'd jump at the chance. On ...

Is it acceptable to stay friends with an ex???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - HI I was wondering if people thinks its acceptable to stay friends with an ex boyfriend, even if you are unsure about whether he is over you? My ex finished it 6 mths ago after i made it clear i wanted marriage and kids (he is nearly 40 and ha...

His ex has control over him....I'm worried about marrying a man that allows her to do this!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6592 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I recently became engaged to my boyfriend. We have been in a relationship for three years. He is a wonderful person and treats me like a queen for the most part. I have one concern about marrying him. His ex-wife still seems to be able to get ...

Is he really over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi,there's this guy who i dated for awhile...after some stuff that happened with us,we realise it's better to be friends. However friends meant...he would still call everyday and let me know what he's doing. We were still very close even though we ...

It has been year since we broke up and now he wants to meet back up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - help... i'm still in love with my ex though it finished over a year ago. He finished it and I was very depressed for several months. I bumped into him recently and he chatted to me all night then asked if we could meet up "for a cup of tea". The ...

I'm 21 and just can't move on from my past crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm nearly 21 years old and I’ve never been in a committed relationship. When I was 19, I was seeing this bloke and he told me he didn't want a relationship. At that time, I didn't want a relationship either. Then as time went on, he was flir...

We broke up and he saw how upset that made me - has he asked me out again out of pity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - hey... me and my boyfriend split up just over a week ago becase he told me he felt uncomfortable because im 2 and a half years older ... after a day or so he kept askin me if i was ok becuase to him i was acting stange.. and he told me because ...

Should I leave him alone and let him decide if he wants me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6592 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me two weeks ago claiming his feelings had changed for me. I saw him last weekend and he told me he still loves me and that he needs to feel how he did when he first fell in love with me again in order to make a go at ...

My gf told me she's torn between me and her ex! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has recently expressed to me that she is now torn between me and her recently divorced ex-husband. She feels that a lot of the bad blood from him was just him getting back at her for leaving him. Now the two are getting along, and ...

After just not contacting me and cutting me out of his life he is back around me and I don't know what to do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid Please help!! I've asked about this problem before, but the plot just keeps on thickening...so here's my latest dilemma...(apologies for the lengthy nature, but please do read!) 1) The Background ------------------ I fell in ...

If I was her current boyfriend I would be put off by the way she is behaving!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hey guys, I didn't get a lot of response to this one (thanks for the advice for those who did). Thought I'd ask again, still driving me a bit nuts... I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend and we hang out on occasion even though she has a boyfri...

Slept with my ex, I still love him but he says he's gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6593 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, i hope you can help me with this, I am 16, and recently i slept with my ex bf (whom we had only just broken up because we never saw eachtother..he dropped out of school ect.) anyway he moved to victoria and now he has just moved back, he h...

We still love each other the only reason we broke up was his anger issues!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a a year broke up over the weekend. He came over last night, just because I had some quetions that I needed answer so I could accept it and move on. However.. all we got out of it was that we still love eachother, and the ...

When we was together I put on alot of weight and he cheated on me...now I've lost the weight he is hanging around again!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Please help My boyfirend and I broke up 3-4 moths ago, after 6 years being together. We had a very good relationship,but not perfect. Since I started going out with him, i gained a lot a lot of weight and it started to bother him that i was lett...

How can he really be over the relationship after just 2 days???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Is it really that possible for my ex to get over our serious relationship after 2 days after we broke up? The day after we broke up a friend of ours said that you could tell that he was bummed but 2 days later he acted like there was nothing wron...

Should I arrange to meet up with the ex again or will I be risking heartache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Do I arrange to see my ex? I am about to move back to the area I happily lived in for 5 years with my ex. I originally moved away when he left me because it was so sad being there without him but I actually missed my "home" as I've grown to see it. ...

I don't love him anymore but he is the only good thing is my life...would it be wrong to get back with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - 2 Weeks ago my bf and I agreed to break it off. I agreed because I thought that he was the reason that i was never happy anymore, and i felt as though I had lost my identity. We've been single for 2 weeks and after the initial 3 days or so when I ...

His ex is making our life a living hell...what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6573 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, I have asked for advice before. I feel i am going out of my mind. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now. We are really happy, apart from his ex. She just wont let go, even though she didnt want him. She keeps making up ...

Do any of you see your exes as good friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?...

While we was friends and getting to know each other I was sleeping with my ex...do I tell my current boyfriend???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Im a 22 year old who is in a good relationship with a 36 year old. age gap aside......... before we got together we were friends for a whole year. we shared a bed occasionally and sometimes got frisky but didnt have sex. meanwhile i was ...

She emails me and says she is crying while writing it but not prepared to do anything about it!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - long story short...me and the x fiance broke it off about 8 months ago..many reasons contributed to the break up..but the final thing is when i found out she was going out behind my back and i found pictures of her with another man..she denies ...

Should I tell my ex everything that happened with me and some guy???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Should I tell my ex boyfriend, who I'm still associated with, the full details of what happened with me and some guy he knows? I met this guy at a local social event and we hit it off, he was a real gentleman, giving me his jacket because I was cold ...

While on a cruise I cheated on my boyfriend...I don't know what to do!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he even had gone through stages where he broke up with me and wanted to have sex with another woman. He did not do it and we worked it out. We have had many ups and downs, one of ...

I want to know if we will ever get back together!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I just returned from my ex boyfriend's house where I spent the weekend. We have been broken up now for 3 months and when I was there this weekend he was staring into my eyes and saying that he thought I was beautiful inside and out. I told him ...

He doesn't want to be with me but he doesn't want anyone else to have me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I want to get back with my ex boyfriend (lets call him S). We're good friends and we have sex, but he's made it clear that he want's to be single for a while, and doesn't know for how long. He wanted me to be exclusive to him because he got ...

Every girl I've been involved with continues to be in contact with their ex...why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I've always have this problem in my relationship. Why do girls Always keep in contact with their ex's? Even when they are in a relationship with someone they would still always hang outwith their ex. I'm not saying every girl does that, but alot d...

When we are together I don't like her but when we are apart I can't stop thinking about her!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I dated a girl about a year ago. We dated for about a month then she broke up with me. I didn't learn till about four months later that she thought we were going to fast and that she liked me still. Instead of fogiving her I ended up going out with ...

Will he come back after walking out on me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Is it most likely for my ex boyfriend to come back wanting me after he walked out on me?...

I woke up in the middle of the night to find him texting his ex girlfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - My name is Amanda and I just left my husband after 9 1/2 years.I was talking to another man but wasn't having anything sexual with him intill me an my husband split up.I am growing closer to this man.He is going threw alot2,he just left his ...

I still love him but he doesn't feel the same...since we split I have noone and I'm failing everything!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i'm 17 and eversince my bf of a year broke up with me 2 months ago, my life has went downhill. i've flunked all my tests because i don't get the urge to study, i have no inspiration now that he's gone.(i was a high school valedictorian!) i've turned ...

We split up but stayed friends...she asked to kiss me and we did now I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, i'm an 18 yr old male, i used to go out with a girl who is 17. however about 6 weeks ago we broke up for reasons. however we have stayed really good friends and stuuf, an today i went upto Cumbria to see her and we were sat iin the car ...

She left me for her married boss and now living with him so why does she keep texting me wanting to meet up and thing??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I split up with my ex 12 months ago now and I am trying my best to move on,I am about 95% there at the moment. She left me for her married boss with 3 kids who told her his heart has never known so much love! and loads of other bull and she fell for ...

I didn't feel well and she told me she didn't know if she wanted to be with my anymore so I left...can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I made a terrible mistake at my gfs formal/prom nite, i wasnt well all day but didnt want to tell her as i thought i could push through the whole nite, but it got worse, so i thought it was best i left,she was off running about with her friends ...

He lied about loving his ex gf. Now I am wondering-am I just a replacement...second best to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He's amazing and we love each other and he has helped me out so much. We come from completely different backgrounds, so I know nothing about his past except what he tells me. The other day, I ...