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writes: Hi all,i'm an 18 yr old male, i used to go out with a girl who is 17. however about 6 weeks ago we broke up for reasons. however we have stayed really good friends and stuuf, an today i went upto Cumbria to see her and we were sat iin the car chillin like ya do and she said she had something to ask me so i said sure go aheah and then she kept saying nah it's ok it doesn't matter, but then i finally got it out of her and she said what would you say if i asked you if i could kiss you? so i repkied erm i dunno but then i said i'd say yes so we ended up kissing abit even though were not together but now i dunno what to think or do!any advice welcome lolChris
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Try talking to her and find out what she wants and where she wants the you and her thing to go, if she just wants to be friends and it's messing you up with the friendship kissing then you need to put a stop to it before you get hurt.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 I think it's normal I have kissed my ex lots of times and we still keep friends and I refused sex after kissings as I knew we wanted different things and couldn't be together really.. in our case aa little distance and talking n the phone from time to time helped us being friends still after 4 years so I think kissin is normal, healthy and a way of expressing you love a person in different ways or to have a confortable physicl cotact, I've kissed people knowing we were to split but its like a strangee farewell or rite of passage to grow uo and go on I think kissing is better than shouting at each other of complaining and leaves a door opened to friendship or evena futire relationship in future time, no need to be engaged just kissin' is great fun and no reason to be so repentful you had a good time and you obviously felt like kissing so..... it's was cool of you bothgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): Well what do you want to do? Sounds like she is wanting to kiss you, that sounds like a girl friend to me...it is pretty common for high school girls to lose interest and then come back again but she may also lose interest again, she is young and so are you....so it is a time in your life when you are meeting a lot of different people and making a lot of different friends and discovering who you are and what you like and who you like..if you like her and want to go out on a date, I would ask her again if she would like to go out with you, if that is what you want to do.
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reader, Decentguy1  +, writes (22 October 2006):
you know, it's natural when two people who were a couple that recently broke up to sometimes kiss each other. Don't stress about that. You were caught up in the moment, and it's okay! The question now, is, if you have broken up with her, I would try to let go of the closeness you are sharing right now..I'm not saying dump her as your friend, in fact,it'll be stronger if you do stay away. Just tell her that you need to be alone for awhile to clear your head, and let yourself go out with friends and others to stay busy. you are young, and i know this may seem intense, and consume you, but trust me from and older guy who has been in that very spot you are in now, it WILL work out OKAY!! 100%!! I guarantee it. So relax a little, and don't be so hard on yourself...life is way to hard as it is being 18, don't let a girl mess with your head...you'll be fine!!good luck!
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