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writes: I've never felt so guilty in all my life. I slept with my ex (who i still have feelings for) who has a new gf. They'd only been going out for 2 days, but she's my age (16) and a virgin. What if they end up having sex? Everyone wants their first time to be special, and the chances of him telling her that he was with me that night are very very slim. It's not fair her thinking that this guy is a great catch. He is a nice guy, especially when you're going out with him. I lost my virginity to him and he was perfect. He used to be a bad boy but during our 4 month relationship he felt he'd become 'tame' which is why now we've broken up he's doing things like this to prove to himself and everyone else that he's still the bad person he was before we were together. I want him back, and he and everyone else knows it, so if I tell this girl (or tell him to tell her) that he cheated with me then the immidiate reaction would be that i'm trying to split them up so I can have him. I don't want to be the cause of damage between relationships, whether that's my ex and his new girl, or my ex and me.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 I think you need to tell her yourself. If she's got any sense she'll leave him, but she probably will be mad with you too. Things have a weird way of always getting out so tell her now, before she finds out another way and it causes even more problems.
This guy sounds like such a loser, you both need to wise up and move on. I know you want him back and she has him now but you need to see how childish he is and obviously doesn't mind hurting either of you! Get out now and tell her, so she can too.
If they do split up, you'll want him back and this will look like you tried to split them up so you could have him. Don't go back . . . tell her, make her see the light and move on. They can't say you wanted to split them up if you don't want him either! If she doesn't listen, leave her to it, you tried.
Good luck
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