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writes: Please help My boyfirend and I broke up 3-4 moths ago, after 6 years being together. We had a very good relationship,but not perfect. Since I started going out with him, i gained a lot a lot of weight and it started to bother him that i was letting myself go, and he was scared it was just going to get worst. i totally agreed with him, but i did attemp to loose weight, but never kept it off. He began to take me for granted, and it became a viscious circle,we stopped having sex for many many months because i was too unconfortable(by the way he never lost any attractions to me), i found out he was seing someone, we broke up..e stopped seeing her very soon after, it was just a rebound, we have seen each other, we really miss each other, it's always hard, we try not to talk or see each other becasue it is hard to move on. I have lost a lot of weight in the past months as well, this is making him a bit upset, because i am finally the confident women he met 6 years ago, he is mad that i did not do it while i was with him... Truely I am very mad at this at all, i became so unhappy in the end off our relationship because of my weight.... Basically he is now seeing someone else, a little more serious, and I am too, not really serious yet... It is so hard for both of us to hear that. We saw each other the other day and we let everyhting out, he cried i cried, i think he is very scared to get back with me, becasue he does not want to hurt me again, i don't know what to do. It is so hard to let him walk away, i am so scared i have lost him forever....We have changed so much in the past months, just realising stuff about our relationship.... We really believed we would get marreid next year or so...What should i do, by the way, at the end of the night, the last time we saw each other we had sex for the first time in a very long time...i haven't heard from him, i think he is freaking out maybe, trying to push me away, What should i do to bring him back and be happy with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): what a jerk!!!! Move on and find someone that loves you for 'you'
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 i agree move on with your life like you say ure with someone else now stay wth im and dont let this other bloke get to you if he loved you that much it wouldnt mater how much weight you put on and he wunt have gone wth another woman
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Get on with your life he didnt love you for who you where when you had a little more padding, now he is taking interest again, think he was playing the game can I catch her again, since you have had sex with you ex now your saying he hasnt contacted you, stay with the guy you are with and dont cheat on him again your ex aint worth your love A
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (24 October 2006):
Get on with your life he didnt love you for who you where when you had a little more padding, now he is taking interest again, think he was playing the game can I catch her again, since you have had sex with you ex now your saying he hasnt contacted you, stay with the guy you are with and dont cheat on him again your ex aint worth your love A
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (24 October 2006):
Get on with your life he didnt love you for who you where when you had a little more padding, now he is taking interest again, think he was playing the game can I catch her again, since you have had sex with you ex now your saying he hasnt contacted you, stay with the guy you are with and dont cheat on him again your ex aint worth your love A
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