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writes: I made a terrible mistake at my gfs formal/prom nite, i wasnt well all day but didnt want to tell her as i thought i could push through the whole nite, but it got worse, so i thought it was best i left,she was off running about with her friends anyway,i felt v alone.She had seemed a little off the past week, and i asked her before i left, is everything ok, and she said she had felt a bit diff from being back at school,i said did she want a bf still,and she said i dont know,so your dumping me? she said i didnt say that. My head was thumping and i felt such panic i just wanted out of there, so i kissed her and said have a good nite,its obvious you dont want me anymore. She did split up with me via a text that nite,and is angry and hurt at me for leaving her at the formal. I am so sorry i hurt her,but i honestly thought i was doing right thing, she is also angry i didnt tell her i wasnt well, again i thought i was doing right thing as i didnt want her to worry. She already has a new guy lined up,she says she isnt going to go out with him,but will prob end up kissing him, i feel so hurt.Do you think i can get her back?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Sounds to me like she is using the fact you left because you wasn't feeling well as a reason to do what she really wanted to do ... end it with you.
I would talk to her and explain to her that the reason you didn't say you wasn't feeling well was because you knew how important the prom was to her therefore you put yourself to one side for her, you need to know what she wants from you so you can move on from this as at the moment you are feeling guilty for leaving the prom when it seems like she is making you feel guilty as to take the guilt away from herself for ending it with you.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): sounds like shes tryin to hurt u with this other guy. y not ring her n explain hw u feel or email her...write out ur thoughts...u hav nuthing to loose...if not..let go of her.. u can do betta..ur so yung as well...good luck..freind x
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