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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Embarrassed that I have to be tested for an STD again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I need to go for an STI check-up as I stupidly participated in drunken fore play with someone who I don't know that well. I have been disagnosed with an STI before (my ex-boyfriend cheated on me) and I'm just worried about the reaction of the people ...

After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...

I want sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or ...

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for turning down sex? His use of words were inappropriate and put me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out on Saturday and I wanted us to sit down and have a grown-up conversation. I have to admit (I'm a chatterbox). Anyways, it was good because we brought a lot of things out in the open. In between that we were ...

My husband looks at she-male porn. Do straight men do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My husband looks at shemale porn, but says he is not gay. The shemale's are cleary men with breast.what do you think? Are there any straight men that like to look at shemale porn? ...

How often does it happen where a man can't get it up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Can I get the opinions of guys out there - how often do you have problems with not being able to "get it up"? The other night a guy I have just started dating and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's about 27. We were both very comfortable...

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...

How to keep the fire going in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I recently got transferred to another country and find myself now in a long distance relationship. This is the 3rd month. We get to see each other twice a month. He does come at least once a month to see me. We cant do better than that cos its ...

I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a ...

Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I am a 45 years old and married for 8 years. My wife told me about her past affair when we were dating. She also told me that she is not a virgin. When I met her she was not that interested in me and after my persistence she started to get involve ...

Virginity and how can I make my body more ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am in need of advice.i'm a virgin and last night i tryed having sex for the first time.i've been wearing tampons for two months now, so obviously it's broken.but when we started to have sex, my hymen was stretching and i could feel it, but ...

Do you think he only wants me around for sex, without a comitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have an unusual relationship with this guy, which is why I need help with it. Normally my relationships follow the same pattern - Guy likes me, I want to get to know more about guy, we get to know each other for about 6 months, he asks me to be ...

Advice on sex please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi. ok i need some sex advice. my and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon, we both know its right and we love and trust each other very much. we have been together for about 5 months, but we havent done anything sexually yet! its because i ...

Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?...

We have a sexual relationship only, should he at least have sent me a birthday card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have a sexual relationship with this man. We have been seeing eachother for a while, mind you mainly just for sex. It was my birthday the other day and he did not call to say Happy Birthday. I did not expect a gift but I was expecting a phone ...

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. ...

What are the best ways to last longer and get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... and we want to have kids but it doesn't feel like we r even tryin anythin we stick to the same ways that we usually do in bed and we never last for very long anymore is there somethin that we can ...

My gf wants sex, but I don't feel I'm ready ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - Okay, I'm gonna be 15... and my girlfriend wants to have sex... I'm a guy of course I want to... I have been dating her since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and I don't know what to do... She means the world to me... and in the past I'...

First-time sex help needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I ...

Will circumcision make me last longer in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Due to having very tight foreskin when my penis is erect and also suffering from frenulum breve i am having a circumcision. I suffer from premature ejaculation. Quite serious, only lasting around 20 seconds when having intercourse but looking arou...

In love with my teacher. He is single and I want to get more involved

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've had feelings for my teacher for a while now and I;m pretty sure he feels the same way by the way he talks to me, approaches me, and we even hug and slightly touch sometimes. Anyway, he's single and I want to get more involved but im not sure ...

Relative is flirting with me after giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - What is she after?? Please help, there is this girl who is a friend and a relative of mine. Since years now our friendship has been some times spicy and some times cold. Finally a year ago she suddenly got flirtatious and I got a little excited a...

Two one night stands with the same guy - How can I find out what is going on between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I have posted on this site before about a man who I had a one night stand with.. Well, it happened again... I like to go out on Friday nights, I usually go by myself because I always see people that I know. Well, I saw M again, it had been a ...

Was it a one off, or could it be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I bumped into this guy I've known vaguely for a while. We'd never spoken properly but we got chatting and exchanged numbers. He text me that week and we arranged to do something the following weekend. Which we did and ended up sleeping together, I ...

He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take...

When in a relationship do people usually hit third base?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, with an 18 year old boyfriend. (Canada) We've been going out for three months, and we hit 2nd base a while back. He started testing for 3rd, like carressing upper thigh, butt, etc. But he made sure I knew he'd never do ...

Do you think my colleague is using me for sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Im just very confused about this guy from work. I cant say I know him that well, we used to just have small talk whenever we bumped into each other and one day he asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink, so we did and we had such a fun time that ...

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been pr...

He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...

I love my girlfriend, but I cant stay faithful? How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I have a women and I love her but I like having sex with other women. I want to get help for my promblem. What can i do? ...

If I masterbate am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hi guys pls judge me. I have never make sex with any woman in my life. I think outside marriage sex is a sin but on many occasions I get attracted to porn pictures or scenes in movies. I helplessily find myself masterbating. Pls am I still a virgin ...

How do I know when she has an orgasm?

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30 August 2009 (M) - What are some good indications of a female orgasm? and im also a bit confused about their 'cum'. thanks...

Is there any way of making a threesome comfortable for all involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - About a year ago I was with a girl, and one night we almost had a threesome with one of my best friends (male), that I wasn't particularly comfortable with. Just after we'd got things started off we were interrupted by a couple of friends having a ...

I love my husband but our sex life is dull! Can I really last a lifetime of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for just over a year and have been together since we were 16. We were each others firsts and used to really ennjoy sex. However, recently (past 4-5 months) I have found that our sex life is almost non existant. My ...

Our first attempt at sex was difficult...but is she still a virgin now or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello everyone I'm 21 and my girlfriend is going to turn 18 soon, we have been together for about 8 months now, I've never met such a wonderful girl that is open to talk about anything, yesterday we decided to "try" as we are both virgins, We ...

I didn't have sex with her because she was a virgin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I started dating my ex when i was in year one in the University. We where so much in love. As time went on i became physically abusive but i didnt want to have sex with her partly because she was a virgin and i believed sex is not love. In my fourth ...

How do I know I"m not in the relationship just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer. how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex? im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i r...

She won't go to a hotel to have sex because she says its "dirty"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been dating my gf for close to 2yrs. The first six months we had great sex. However we stopped for a while since her mom started staying home and we had no place to have sex. We love each other very much and we often talk about ...

I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...

Why did this happen and why did I taste like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - Heey. I'm 16 years of age. Yesterday my boyfriend (who's 17) and myself, had sex yesterday (doggy style)..now..after that we did the 69..i sucked him off as usual and he fingered and licked me out as usual...BUT! when he was fingering me...

Both were drunk and couldn't keep it going, was that being "whiskey drunk'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - ok so im an 18 yr old female, the last 2 guys ive had sex with, ive only slept with once each, with both guys in both situations we had been friends with a little bit more going on, both times the guys were drunk but i wasnt. both of them during ...

We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get ...

G/f likes to watch porn while having sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this woman(41, I'm 40) for several months now. She always wants to have a porn flick on when we make love and I really hate it! For one thing, it's a distraction! I want to focus on her, not what some bimbo is doing to the mai...

Sex, pregnancy, and itchiness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - okay so im now in a new relationship and well we have had sex twice.it was incredible not going to lie hes my second person to have sex with. And he and i looked at the condum and well i guess he came were not sure if it was pre cum or actually him ...

He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently ...

I don't like it shaved!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I am what I think is a straight male. I however, cannot get aroused over a shaved pussy. There is nothing more repulsive than to see a five oclock shadow, stubble or worse, pimples! Now that ALL women shave and as I believe, we as a society are ...

Why won't my boyfriend be intimate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi I need help with a very frustrating relationship problem I have. I've been with this guy for a little over a year now and at first he just seemed absolutly perfect, he was extremely nice, caring, fun, good looking, but now whenever I'm around him ...

Unprotected sex, the morning after pill and what if my period starts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend tonight. where can i get the pill and if i get my period tomorrow does that mean that i am not pregnan? ...

I have feelings for another co-worker, and I'm scared of giving it a go because it happened before and blew up in my face! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I have this male friend at work who I've hung out with outside of work a few times before. We could both tell there was definitely an attraction there, so one night after a few drinks, we ended up in bed together. I wasn't sure if it was a one time ...