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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Missed a day of my birth control pill, could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I missed a day of my birth control pills. I ended up having sex the next day after I doubled up the pills to make up for the day I missed. A little over two days later, I took Plan B because I worried about the pills not working since I missed ...

Men, please help me? Is watching tranny porn normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Almost a year ago this month we met. He was obsessed with my sex!! Wanted it all the time, everyday every night....now he is always tired when he comes home from work. Or he complains about how it sucks getting old his body is out of shape. I left ...

How do I end this affair with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So, I have been seeing a married man. Didn't find out until the third time we met that he was married, because something was telling me there was something not rite. We usually meet up about once a week for a few hours then go our separate ways. ...

Will having anal sex without a condom or lube be safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had anal sex before with condoms but, no lube,(i was okay with it). Now he wants to try it without a condom,im not worried about the pain but, will it be safe?...

Will I bleed again if I don't have sex for 3 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hi i have a question. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years and we only have had sex 3 times and in those 3 times its been painful for me and ive bled. Now me and him have broken up and i dont want to get back with him but in my culture ...

Is there a high probability that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Ok so i was at a friends house.And there was this guy. We fooled around. I gave him a hand job and i gave him a blow job he blew sperm on him self. Then we had sex we use two condems. and niether on eof then broke. Is there any high chance i could ...

Is open marriage a solution for bad sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I am split in two. I have been married for the last almost 5 years, and I love and adore my husband. He is a very loving, kind and caring person. The only problem is, the sex is pretty boring. It is not just his fault, obviously, ...

What does messing around mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - The guy I'm seeing totally me he's a virgin. He said he's only messed around with girls he's met at clubs and his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what that means. I really don't want him to go into detail about it either. I always thought messing ...

Having past and maybe present sex problems....should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I recently got back together with an ex who broke up with me 2 months ago. During our relationship, I put too high a value on sex. She told me I satisfied her, I started to believe I wasn't really. Beginning last winter, I think I started putting ...

What's normal as far as noise goes, during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I'm dating a really great guy with whom I recently became sexually active for the first time. I enjoy being intimate with him, and he says he feels the same way, but he expresses concern that I don't make a sound during any type of sexual ...

Doesn't it sound lik eI'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Me and my partner have being trying to concieve a baby, in the last 2 weeks i have being having dizzy spells, headaches, stomach cramps, fatigue, and nausea. i had diarreah for 3 days (sorry for t.m.i) i had what i think was meant to be my period a ...

I don't know how to talk to him about his abnormal interest in porn.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So through accidental find, I now know my boyfriend has a shocking sexual attraction to young girls and young trannys. I dont know how to feel about this. We have children male and female, so my mind is working overtime trying to figure out if he is ...

How do I trust my boyfriend again after his sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with my boyfriends sexual addiction. He is currently in therapy, has been for about a month and a half. How do I begin to trust him again? ...

My boyfriend prefers porn to hot sex with me - and lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 18 months now and at first we had an amazingly erotic and stimulating sex life, did it everywhere, all the time. Things started to slow down. I knew that he did porn, I knew he went on prostitute website to ...

My husband still needs to masturbate even though we have sex at least once a night!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Why is that a man in a sexually healthy relationship would be masterbating? My husband is 39 and wants sex at least every night and sometimes 3-4 times in a 24 hour period. Is this normal and is jerking off normal when you have intercourse that ...

Does the operation for bladder cancer create problems when getting an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - i am going to be having an operation for bladder cancer soon i read that sometimes it does affect the dick to get an erection has anyone out there had a bladder cancer operation and had this problem as i just want to know what it would be like and ...

She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....

What is the big deal about masturbation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - What is the big deal bout masterbating/cuming/orgasm? I have never masterbated in my life, but even on this sight there's something bout it. You hear stories bout people using hair brushes and carrots and whatnot to stick them up ya, i think it...

I can't maintain an erection with my current partner! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having some problems with sex. I can't seem to maintain my erections with her. I've never had this problem with any of my previous partners, so I don't believe (and really want to refuse to believe) that it's some sort of ...

I'm not sure I fancy the man I'm seeing, but I don't want to lose him either! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who has recently started a new relationship. We met through an online site, and on the first date I thought 'well I don't fancy him, but he makes me laugh and I feel very safe with him' We went on some more dates which were ...

I can give my boyfriend and orgasm, but he can't give me one. Is it because I'm a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I are in bed at night and get really close, I can give him an orgasm, but ive never had one. Why is this? Is this because I'm still a virgin and he isn't? Please help as I think it is gettin to my boyfriend alot....

My girlfriend says that sex is painful. Is she telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I have gf friend dat have dating for year now. Any time we make love she either cry or shout dat is painfull. Is she pretending or truly painful as she claimed....

I want to stop masturbating permenantly. Can you give me any advice on how to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I have been masturbating 4 4yrs now and i want 2 stop bcos i have seen the conseqences. But how do i stop? I have tried 2 stop many times, sometimes it last 4 a months or weeks but i want 2 stop it permanently. So pls help me with advice....

I want to wait before having sex with my boyfriend, but he makes me feel bad about it...and there are other problems too...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My bf is trying to pressure and manipulate me into having sex with him. I keep saying that I want to wait. Im not saying no, just not right now as I want to know him better and I think trust needs to be built, and that level of trust can only be ...

He has a hard time keeping it hard!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I'm in a new relationship with this guy, and it been almost 2 mos. He told me that he has a problem keeping it up when it's time for sex. Is it because he been with a transsexual and didn't know that he was after the intercourse happened with them ...

His foreskin broke during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hi, when i was having sex with my ex boyfriend, i was on top and then i broke his for-skin.. im really embarrassed, is this my fault and should i be embarrassed? ...

I can't imagine a life without oral ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - i'm having a big problem with my fiance... he loves getting orals, even insists on it... but won't give me any. the main problem is that fondling and all the rest, including penetration give me orgasm, but not really powerful. my ex always gave me ...

I have erection problems and my wife is quite frustrated. what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I don't know why am I not horny anymore. I used to be very sexual, but now I almost never feel, the need of sex. I love my wife, 26 years married. I can't say, I'm not attracted to her. I do have ED, but it is unclear why. I do work a lot, b...