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Relative is flirting with me after giving me the cold shoulder

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Question - (30 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What is she after??

Please help, there is this girl who is a friend and a relative of mine. Since years now our friendship has been some times spicy and some times cold. Finally a year ago she suddenly got flirtatious and I got a little excited and started sending her 18+ e-mails. Afterwards she freaked away so I simply apologized and stopped,and we continued our friendship in the conservative cold way. Suddenly three weeks ago she started flirting extensivly again !! I dont know what is in her mind and I am afraid if I tried to spice things up quikly she would freak out just like last time but I realy want to know what has changed her suddenly three weeks ago??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

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she is related to me through my sister's in laws

so it is fine to play with her in all cultures

and about chasing

she is the one who is hasing me now not the oppesite

i am just astranged and confued about her changing behaviour....,and i have been respecfull with erh since i oppologized long time ago

to make things simple..

does she want to be laid or what ??

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A female reader, CupidGirl826 United States +, writes (31 August 2009):

Hey there,

First off, keyword: relative.

I don't know what culture you are. I know in some cultures they arrange marriages with 3rd and further cousins. However..

If your culture doesn't have marriages that are arranged like this, my advice is stop pursuing her.

You need to respect yourself, and you need to respect her, in most cultures this kind of relationship isn't ideal since she's related to you.

I know in society, we've lost respect and we lost standards - so this may not make any sense to you.

Good Luck

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