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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He has a high sex drive and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Help! My boyfriend has a very high sex drive and I don't. We have been together for nearly 5 years. Whenever he asks for sex and I say no he always speaks to me like a piece of crap or hardly speaks to me. I try the best I can but he doest ...

B/f no longer has sexual feelings for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend 20 years is suddenly loosing interested in our relationship he said he still loves me but has no sexual feelings for me what can i do since im still inlove with him.please help me....

Is making out with my sister incest?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I could use advice. I was playing with my sister and we started to make out i kissed her and she didnt pull away or get mad.I kissed her more and touched her breast and began to suck them she was just wearing a tank top and tight shorts i began ...

Do other ladies enjoy being 'fisted'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I have a very large viginia. So large, that my boyfriend has no trouble fisting me. Although I enjoy being fisted, I was wondering if other ladies are the same way. Also do they enjoy being fisted...

What's my ex trying to do to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone Please help me its really comfusing me, my ex bf dumped me last october to go bk to his other ex gf, but that never happened, Anyway we have stayed really good friends and since then he has a new gf who is pregnent with his 1st chi...

I have a beautiful boyfriend but I'm not into having sex. At all. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i fancy the pants off him. I'm just not interesed in having sex and it's starting to become a strain on our relationship. I thought it might be because of the pill which ive been on about a year now...

What's up with the sudden "booty calls" ??!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Hey there. I'm so confused as to what has happened in the past six months. I'm very inexperienced with guys (yes, even at my age!) but have had three occassions lately where I've received "booty" calls from diffent guys! What the heck!? I know...

I'm in great shape... so why doesn't he french kiss me or give me oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - my husband won't french kiss me at all or perform oral sex on me. He just wants to have sex. I am in good shape and have great grooming. Is there something wrong. I am sure he does not run out on me. We have been married for 33 years and he has...

How can I bring back the sexual attraction in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. Most of that time has been great. We have had an awsome sex life. For about the last year or so I was not a very good boyfriend. I got myself into a routine of being lazy about housewor...

I can't have sex because I'm afraid of eye contact... has anyone else had this problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - This is unusual problem to have, but I've only had sex a few times because of this, and I hated it. I can't make eye contact with the other person. For some reason I have very piercing intimidating eyes, it actually feels like people get scared when ...

I can't get my girlfriend to climax!! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - hi. no matter how hard i try i cannot get my girlfriend to orgasm!! It doesnt matter what position we do, how hard, how fast i go, or how long we do it, she never comes. she also never comes through oral sex, however long i do it for or anything....

Threesome turned sour....how can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy ...

How long is sex supposed to last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - probably a silly question, but how long do women prefer men to last in bed??? i suppose l am asking because in myself l dont believe l last very long at all. what got me thinking more about this is when my wife and i had separated for a period, ...

How can I stop the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I'm 15 I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years..we havnt had sex yet..I'm a virgin he's not...I'm ready 2 have sex with him..he's ready to..but I'm soo scared its gonna hurt...is there anything I could do to stop the pain?...

All of the sudden, he doesn't "want a girlfriend". What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - okay so my ex boyfriend and me still hangout and hookup..tonight i gave him head and i swollowed for the first time thinking that it would show him that i care!..WRONG..after i did that we talked about us and he said that he has to much going on for ...

Is a bed and breakfast a good place for having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A conce...

Ladies! Do you have favorite sexual positions and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Are there some favorite sex positions among woman? Ladies, please tell what sex positions you like and why? ...

Can you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Im just wondering if you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual. Would it look, feel, smell, even taste the same? Anything would be great thanks!...

Dominant and submissive...I'm afraid that I'm not going to be able to give him what he needs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I really need advice. Stat. I am a 33 year old straight woman. I just found out today that my new boyfriend is pretty submissive. I'm submissive too (as in I like a man to be in charge), so that creates issues right there that neither of us ar...

Why don't I squirt with the new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I used to squirt while having an orgasm with my ex but with my new bf I cant...and I don’t know if it’s because of my masturbation or him or if I did it too much with my ex??...

Is masturbation ruining my sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Hi all, Lately I have been in a relationship with a 41-year old woman. I have known her for a few months already and we get along wonderfully, there's a lot of chemistry and fun being together. We have great compatibility too and want more or les...

I want to lose my virginity but how can I stop being nervouse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - im nearly 15 and i havent lost my big V yet and my gf whants to have sex with me i want to do it too but im nevrous what can i do to not be nervous?...

Should I lost my virginity? Should I just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - So I started liking this guy months ago. At first he didn't know if he liked me back or not but then he started liking me and we've had a thing for 9 months on and off now. When we do have a thing, it's always me and some other girls. Well just ...

Can I make myself tighter

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - I feel like my vagina is looser than most womens even though I do kegel exercises everyday and exercise plenty. How can I tell if I am loose? I think I am because I can not feel when my boyfriend cums inside of my vagina, but I can feel him cum ...