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female
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writes:I recently got transferred to another country and find myself now in a long distance relationship. This is the 3rd month. We get to see each other twice a month. He does come at least once a month to see me. We cant do better than that cos its expensive. I prefer when he comes to see me cos we are able to have alone time together, which is different from when i go home cos there's my family, his family, our friends, errands that all come in the way... Out of the many changes to our relationship, I am also having trouble adopting to our new sex life cos now its limited to 2 times a month...very frustrating!! Am looking for creative ways to keep the fire burning in our relationship.ps: I will be away for 2 yrs.
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reader, linz09  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Send cards, write letters, emails and texts, webcam, just make sure you both know that you love,care and are thinking of each other. It is really hard being in a long distance relationship, the main issue is trust, so make sure this is never an issue.
You can do it if you really care enough and don't worry you'll find a way of having some interesting long distance flirty fun.
See this as a kind of test on your relationship, it will either make you stronger and closer or have the reverse effect.
Hope it all works out well...and the 2yrs will fly by.
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Been there, done that!!!Ok so I used to date a guy in america and i saw him every few months. BUT we would get webcams and fool around, send kinky emails and pics, just stuff to get us in the mood. The rule is though, WHEN he comes over, you have to be your best, let him know you miss him, but be everythng he loves about you, your happy sense of humour, look gorgeous, just make it so that you are everything he wants and he will do the same. Send him the odd token as a gift, such as a webcam to begin with, it will drive him wild Also you are initiating something potentially sexy so he'll be mad for u. after 2 years this guy still cried when i dumped him. we kept it up well, in fact the only reason i dumped him was because i didnt like him in the flesh any longer!
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