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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I want to have more natural and mind-blowing sex with my gf and want to stop this masturbation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I am not sure why but I am a guy with very very high sex drive. Normally i would make love 5-6 times a day and if i am really happy and things are going the way I want, maybe like 8 times. But I am concerned about something that is killing my mind ...

Can I get pregnant from the clear fluid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Okayee, my boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit. Usually its like 3 times in a period of 3 or 4 hours. And most of the time its Protected. But today he put his penis in without a condom. And alot of the time when he gets an erection he leak...

Do many women "sow their wild oats" just because they can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I've always enjoyed this site and have really benefitted from the insight offered on other peoples questions so I figure I'll ask one myself and see if you can shed some light and offer me some piece of mind. My serious girlfriend (who ...

How to I initiate phone sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. i am very young so i havent experienced most things and i want to have phone sex but i just dont know how to start it off or anything can someone help me??...

Why haven't I gotten my period yet? We had unprotected sex but he never came!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - okay , so i lost my virginity a day after my last period . it's been approximatly 32-34 days since then , since my period. the 1st time we ddnt use a condom , but he never came/finished. whats wrong? why havent i gotten my period??? :(...

I'm pregnant, can I still have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - hello i m 12 week runing pragnant this is my 1st pragancy so dnt know about sex during in pragancy could u tell me please can i sexual intercorse with my partner? i dnt know if i do any sexual activtes can effect my baby or not, i did my 1st scan ...

My wifes lover dumped her now she's depressed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Hi Cupids, can anyone help me, my wife cheated just over 6 months ago and the OTM dumped her and then broke of all contact. We have remained together to work at saving our marriage,but the problem is that she seems constantly down and depressed that ...

My sex life is drying up and I can't stop it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. For the first 3 we were living separately and the sex was great. We made love almost every time we saw each other. But since we moved in together the sex has kind of dried up. We went from 3-4 ...

Could two sexually inactive people pass along an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - My fiancee and I are about to get married and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and both come from a religious background with some pretty strong views on pre-marital sex. Neither of us has been sexually active with anyone beyond ...

Does his sexual request reflect his level of respect for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My new bf and I are having a long distance thing, we see each other every other wkend. We mainly communicate through daily txts. Naturally sometimes our txts turn abit dirty : ) We have told each other our sexual requests for nxt time we meet up....

Why doesn't my fiancee want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 27 years old and recently engaged, everything in our relationship is awesome except one thing: We dont have sex! I want to and I feel i need to, but my fiance never wants to. She always makes some kind of excuse or says s...

I'm worried that my boyfriend has slept with other women behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - hey there am going to meet my boyfriend after a quite time but am too worried he might have slept with other women behind my back , i am planing to go for an hiv test before something more intimate between us.. am afraid we might have unprotected ...

How to tell my man that grunting during sex is a turn-off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hello, I enjoy sex w/ my man and I like a little noise (moaning/sighing/etc.), but the last time we had sex he must have felt more free/relaxed and began grunting. I didn't know until it happened that I find this a turn-off. I looked online an...

I thought teenage boys were supposed to be very interested in sex; why does my boyfriend not want it anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months but he's not been wanting to have sex as much as he did. Whenever I want it he says not today (but not in an angry way) or 'Lets wait til another day' I dont get it because we'r...

Did he really like me or just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just started hanging out with a guy and there is real chemistry between us. The other night tho he was teasing me that one of our friends said I liked him and I got defensive. He basically made me feel like a stalker coz he doesn...

I'm affraid he will leave me if I stop acting like a pornstar for him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend/fiance of nearly 3 years has always been very kind to me, but I do not know how to get him to treat me like a woman rather than a sex object. I will dress sexy for him and do my hair and makeup, and yes I am very sexual, but he is ...

He said he used me, what meassage should I get from this?

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4 August 2009 (F) - dear cupid, I got deeply emotionally involved with a guy about 3 months ago. We were pretty much dating but he was about to leave to go to Japan for 2 months. I told him i wanted 2 wait til he got back 2 start something and he was ok with that. ...

Hes already dating but had sex with me last night!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Last night I slept with a guy that I have liked for only a few days. We had an intense connection and both felt like we had been together forever. The problem is that I found out that he has actually started seeing someone a couple o...

I need a faithfull man in my life but I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i have a fear of getting hurt, eventhough right now im badly in need of a guy in my life (A faithful man, not just a passing wind) i always keep away from guys just because im sacared of getting hurt. I feel that every guy i meet wants to have sex. ...

Do you think this could be my orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and we've been having sex almost as long. However, I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm... Anyways, when I'm on top I can make sure it feels good and sometimes it feels so good I feel ...

I'm experiencing pregnancy-like symptoms... Help!

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4 August 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and would benefit from any answers i receive on this following situation. I had unprotected sex 4 weeks ago, since then i've experienced pregnancy-like symptoms. This includes; bloating, fatigue, cramping (often mild but ...

He will have sex but won't kiss me. Is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I'm having a relationship with a guy who doesn't kiss me either in bed or out, apart from a peck on the lips as I drop him off at the station. He also doesn't stroke me or caress me, and yet we really get it on sexually and I have been making ...