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Archived questions from: 10 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I gay if I like anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - she was on her period so we had anal sex, it was all good but afterwards she asked if she could bum me, i've always wondered so i let her ( she used a strap on ) It felt so amazing, i started thinking afterwards, does this mean i could be gay?...

She doesn't give great handjobs...how can I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Ladies i need some advice i don't want to upset my girlfriend but i don't like the way she gives me handjobs she never pulls my foreskin all the way back to stimulate my bellend my ex did this and felt great any ideas of how you would tackle this ...

Can't get that "other man" off my mind! I'm married and I want to just get on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for several years and I am very much in love with him still. Although we have been going through some tough times, I've always known that I want to be with him. I am going through a really hard time right now because I ...

Am I pregnant..how long before I take a test?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok well hi, I just want to know if I should get a pregnancy test or not. im 17 and I lost my virginity on July 8th. I had sex 3 times that day WITH a condom, then once more on july 11th with a condom. They didn't break or have any holes that we ...

I heard Mom and Dad having sex and now I'm disgusted! How can I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i need some help on this one well one night i was lying in my bed and I heard my mum and dad having sex i then felt really sick looking at them the next day i felt disgusted with them. is it normal to feel this way towards them Im to scared to talk ...

Why is sex so good only after emotionally intense moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Why is it that the most incredible sex/love making seems to take place after an emotional moment between two madly in love people???? I mean we have been together a little over six months but we have known each other a year, and the sex is usually ...

Tips on giving a guy oral

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok we I have gave my bf oral a couple times but I think he doesnt enjoy it he says he does but I just feel like he's just saying that. So I wanted to know what will make my guy love the oral and ask me for more any tips? Things guy love and enjoy?...

I love my boyfriend but don't want to be intimate with him... could this have anything to do with my pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much...we have fun he makes me laugh and were expected a baby in about 4months.but i just dont kno what happened.maybe becuz im pregnant but its like i dont wanna have sex anymore with him like i really dont like it.i just ...

I'm participating in his affair but I don't want to be..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a abusive relationship and all my past relationships were either abusive physically or emotionally or both, my question is how do I stop currently having sex with my boss who is married. I used to always say no but I finally gave ...

I need help in my decision to lose my virginity and have a baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hey... im a 15 year old girl. and i jus wana no wat people think and if they have any advice.. ive been in a relationship with this boy for jus over a month. and i reli wana lose mi virginity and have a baby!! i no people are goin 2 say im ...

How can I please a woman and make myself last longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - how can i make myself last longer in bed and allso how can i easly make a women cum...

A few questions on pregnancy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - can you get pregnant from anal sex? my friends say that it won't count as you losing your virginity and you can't get pregnant.also can you get pregnant if he pulls it out before he releases sperm can you get pregnant? thats also what they told me ...

How do I get over losing my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and cos my mom went through a lot of stuff with my dad, cos she was pregnant before they got married, she advised me to keep it until I got married. I was going to, and I did until I got to uni. Just before the school year ran out, however, ...

What are lube bottles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - what are lube bottless?...

I'm curious about sex and want to try masturbation, but I cant seem to get myself off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I am entering an awkward stage in my pre-sex life, now that I'm curious about what sounds like a mind blowing experience that a good majority seem to enjoy. My goal is to wait until marriage, but I don't want *it* to hurt, so I've tried ...

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

This question has 68 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...

Is there a chance I am pregnant from his pre-cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I had sex for first time...we didnt use a condom but he didnt come in me..the problem is im worried about the pre-cum because i was told it can pregnate you.. well, he hadn't ejaculated before and he peed since the last time he had ...

I like being in a relationship with a man, but like having sex with a woman! What do I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - This is a really weird problem... I love men...but i dont like having sex with them... but i love being in a relationship. But having sex with a woman is wonderful but i don't want to be in a relationship with them. What do I do? Both are equally ...

What size condom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I was wondering what size condom i would get if my penis is 7.25 inches long, give or take a little, and about 5.20 inches in girth...

How do I stop wishing he would come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I graduated high school two months ago, and though we're not going to the same college, we had never really discussed what was going to happen with our relationship this fall. We're both virgins, and recently he started pressuring ...

If I don't start it, we don't have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey I am 23 years old and can not figure out why my husband to be dont want me anymore. We have been together going in 4 years now but in the past 5 months he has not wanted me sexually. What is wrong with me? What can I do to change this? He is 22 ...

Oral sex--tips to do, not to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - hey guys and gals, oral..... girls hints and tips on what you love when a guy goes down on you........ guys hints and tips on what your partner loves you to do. my wifes clit is so touchy that i can only give her oral for a couple of minutes befo...

How to get my wife more interested in foreplay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - hello all, i have been married for 11yrs and we have 5 children together. we had a bad split up but are back together now. my wife did play around while we were apart. since then to me sex just hasn't been the say(in my mind i wonder if she did it ...

He wants sex once a week and I want it every 2-3 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. i had a month old son when we got together, who is now 3, and he has raised him as his own. how awesome is he right? ... we also have a 2 year old daughter together. well of course we have had our ...

I'm single and missing sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Basically I'm single again and really missing sex. My supervisor's noticed I'm not getting much work done - I just can't concentrate on anything, it's really bad. Has anyone else had this problem? What do you do to satisfy your cravings when you're ...

Does he just want to hook up for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (?) - Same problem with my ex. Except we're not talking now because I chosed not to. I want to get back together offcially. He said to be friends and hook up so that he can see if he wants to get back. I said friends is fine but no hook up. (B...

How do we handle the situation at the B&B we'll be staying at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man The other night my young man took me out to a nice dinner and he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away It is believed there is nothing more wonderful than feeling sexy, and beautiful, and b...

Performance anxity or erectile dysfunction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I'm having erection problems during sex but don't now why. I almost always wake up with strong morning wood. When I masterbate, which maybe I do too often, I have no problem getting hard and ejaculating. When I'm with a woman, sometimes I'm fi...

I'm willing to do almost anything but he'd rather watch it on the computer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey - I have been having a little problem for a while now regarding my boyfriend of 3 years. He is a great guy and i love him. But our sex life can be a bit lacking at times and i find myself knowing some things i shouldnt- because i snoop. (...

Should I get involved in a FWB relationship with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my child's father. The best thing in our relationship was sex. It was awesome. There was never a time when it wasn't good. We've been broken up for a month and have had sex twice. It would have been more than that, but a few ...

He says he can't orgasm during sex as he masturbates too much! It isn't me is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My bf says he has never been able to ever cum when having sex with any girl that he has had sex with. He can however when he masturbates himself. He says he cant come during sex because he has masturbated so much. For him to cum he needs it to be ...

I'm becoming attracted to me best friend's ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - i've started flirting with my best friend's ex girl, i never thought of her as atractive till she told me about her sexual fantasies and such, now i feel like i'd love to tap that, but what do i do?...

I can't cope having a purely physical relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I know I'm young, so I'm not going to naively throw the word 'love' around, but if there ever was anyone, it would be him, I've had strong feelings for him for nearing 4 years now, we've always gotten on really well and known how we've felt about ...

How does horniness work.. ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - is it possible for a horney guy to just be horney for a specific girl? and if a guy gets horney from thinkin of you, could it be because he likes you? not just physically...