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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm sexualy attracted to other girls more than my girlfriend. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Ok so I need help, I'm 16 years old, I have a girlfriend that I love very much and don't get me wrong she turns me on, I mean I sometime I jerk off thinking of her. I mean when I'm with her I watch her when she walks and even when we're in church I ...

He ignored me then text me two months later? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Why would your friend whos a guy rarely talk to you and then all of a sudden text you about your school scheduale? He could've asked his friends or his cousin but why did he ask me! It seems to me that he kept my phone number!Last year he knew my ...

Everytime I have sex it hurts and I get a brown discharge, what is this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend has been together for quite a while now and we have started having sex quite regular but the problem is everytime we have sex i am left in quite abit off pain and a browny discharge happens :S.. the very first time we...

He'll be 18 and I"m scared he'll want sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking about dating and all that stuff, the fathest we've gone is makeout. i really like him, but i'm 15 and he's 17. thats not bad, but he'll be 18 in March and i'll still be 15 until junee. i'm a sophmorevand he's a ...

He wants to sleep with me, but this would threaten my job. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - im working as a housekeeper. my lady boss told me that her husband is in love with me. i was asked several times already by my male boss if i want to sleep with him which i refused, he didnt force me though. i like my job and dont want to resign. ...

How can I withhold sex until I know the guy better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - hi, can anyone help?... I want to be in a relationship but whenever i try to wait for sex it doesnt work... I havent had that many but I dont know how to withold sex till I know the guy... what do I do?...

Christians: is it a sin to have sexual feelings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - as a christian,having feelings of sex when growing up,is it sinful?...

I'm horny all the time yet I'm too nervous to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Why am i so horny yet im to nervous to have sex is that normal? i have had opportunities and there's always strippers but i always get too nervous. When ever im out i will see women and there so sexy especially in summer they look amazing. I ...

When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - hey i am 14, i had sex on friday night when me and a few others stoped at my lads mates house and we were not drunk we were sober and i was messing around with this lad and then we went upstairs because this lad had a bad sholder and i said i w...

Rough sex didnt hurt me so now my boyfriend thinks I have slept with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i had very rough sex the other day and it didnt hurt at all.. Basically he wanted me 2 scream ive only ever had sex with him, we've been together two years and been doing it for about a year and a half. Its upsetting him that it ...

How many women are insecure about their vaginas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - How many women are insecure about their vaginas? AND Is it normal to have large labia? Will men care?...

We are very sexually attracted to each other but when it came to sleeping together for the first time he lost his erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a month we decided to wait for sex until we was both ready so we went away for the weekend just gone...we get on great...were very sexually attractive to each other...hes 29 im 22....so the night came and we kissed etc ...

Is it normal for a man to stop his sexual advances and tell the woman to approach him for sex instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my question. I am wondering if it is normal for a man not to approach a woman sexually in a relationship but instead tell her it is up to her to approach him for intimacy etc? It used to be that ...

How do you know if a man has had sex already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - how do you know if a man had sex already? would it take time for them to ejaculate? and if they havent had sex in a while would they ejaculate quicker?...

What happens to a woman if she has sex or masturbates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Dont laugh but ive been wondering for a while what happens to a woman if she has sex or masturbates . every porn ive seen the guy just comes all over the girl at the end and thats it. i read that women have orgasm so what happens and in some por...

Any warnings or tips about oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 3 months recently indicated she would like to move on and have oral in a few days, i was wondering if there are any warnings or tips? thanks...

My partner keeps having sex with me in my sleep, even if we have had sex before sleeping!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - my partner and i have a very active sex life, we have been together 14 years, we still have sex 3-4 times a week, however he goes through phases, of having sex whilst im sleepin, my partner is quite a dominate man, and ive let him be, when i start ...

Why is my boyfriend acting like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Is it abuse if your bf tries to force you into sex through making you feel guilty? By saying things like 'if you loved me' or 'if you wanted to see me happy you would do it', 'if you cared about me' etc. Is it abuse if he doesnt respect you when...

What does it mean when a guy tells you that you have a "fat cat"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - What exactly does it mean whan a guy tells a girl that they have a fat cat. I was told this after having sex and still can't seem to fully understand what it means!!! I think I know but want to make sure it means what I think it does!!! Thank you ...

I won't swallow, so now he doesn't want oral, is this really a big thing for guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I am deeply in love with my man, was giving him head until a week ago when he suddenly said you don't have to. I asked him what that meant, he said it is because I won't swallow, Is this a really a deciding factor for men, He loves the way I give ...

Is my fetish keeping me from intimacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Alright I have a foot fetish and I would like to know if that's something women can appreciate I mean when I was in high school it seemed like I was some kind of freak and now I feel like like that's why I get turned down it seems like its a giant ...

Best friends who became more and now its a mess

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I am 20 now, but I met this guy when I was 17. We started out as friends. I never wanted to like him, mayb because he doesn’t look like the type I’d date. But nothing ever happened. Hed never tried to do anything. We moved out together 1 yr after ...

I find myself sexually attracted to him! But he's 7 years younger!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I'll try to keep this quick and simple. There's this boy I watched grow up.I'm 7 years his senior. We lived in the same building for a few years. His family and my family are very close. And i dated his older brother a few years back. Now time as ...

Is there a way to have soundless Fanny Farts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - So I have been trying to find a solution to avoid Queefs (fanny farts, varts, vaginal air...) I came accross this reply to this topic that suggested "As soon as you're done lie on your back open your legs and press your stomach to the air will nat...

He watches porn but he won't have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and getting more and more frustrated with our sexual relationship. we have not had sexual intercourse for the past year. he blames it on his high blood pressure pills. i know he watches porn at ...