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writes:ok so im an 18 yr old female, the last 2 guys ive had sex with, ive only slept with once each, with both guys in both situations we had been friends with a little bit more going on, both times the guys were drunk but i wasnt. both of them during foreplay had gotten almost intantly hard. then once the actual intercourse happened they went soft after about 3 mins. both had tried to get it up again but just continued to fail. they had both apologized to me and basically reacted the same way. saying how sorry they were that that had never happened to them before and they feel like a loser. and just continued to apologize and kept saying over and over how they dont understand that its never happened before. well my question is: does this have something to do with me? am i doing something wrong? or is this just what they call whiskey dick and the fact that it has happened the last 2 times and the guys responded in the excact same way just a coincedence???i appreciate all answers and advice!!! thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): How sad that you are having sex with "friends" and waiting until they are drunk enough to seduce them.
I think it could be a coincidence, or perhaps they sense that you are using them for sex and they are getting turned off, they once respected you and are actually kind of freaked out that you are so easy.
That would be my guess.
Don't you think it is worth waiting for the right guy, a boyfriend who has told you he wants only you, who is a true friend first and in love with you?
Have some self respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): Alcohol alters the mind, changes the ability to concentrate etc, so it would appear that they found it difficult to find the mental stimulation to perform, i think it's called "brewers droop".
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 It may just be a coincidence: too much alchohol can do that to a guy. Were they both really, really drunk? Or just a few drinks? All I know is that, for me, with a few drinks, I can go all night! But with too many drinks, I'm useless...so it's probably not just you.
But, just in case, you should think about what you might be doing that could "psych" a guy out. If you're too aggressive about "doing it", for example, then it could be turning the guy off.
Other than that, you might want to find someone who's NOT drunk ;)!
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