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male
age
36-40,
*hukwuemeka
writes:I started dating my ex when i was in year one in the University. We where so much in love. As time went on i became physically abusive but i didnt want to have sex with her partly because she was a virgin and i believed sex is not love. In my fourth year she broke up with me saying that was beating her. She was already seeing another guy. I pleaded with her and told her how sorry i am that i thought we have gotten over the experience. I even told my mother and brother and many of my friends. They pleaded with her on my behalf but again it fell on deaf ears. My mother told me that she never loved me because she should have listened to her at least. This year she came to me saying that her sex urge was high but i didnt want to have sex with her because she told me she was a virgin instead i told her how to control it and pleaded with her to keep her virginity for her husband. Weeks after she stopped greeting we and i heard she dumped the other guy and is dating a new person. I later decided to great her whenever i see her but i have never contacted her for months and she has not contacted me either. Will she ever come back? How do i get her away from my system? I need answers, am emotionally down
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reader, gwendolyn R  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 First of all you never ever abuse a woman that is why she left you. a woman can only take so much. first of all she doest feel loved by you. maybe it's better that you move on to a btter and healther realtionship and hun you do need sex out of your system that is probaly why you abused her out of aggression.
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