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Archived questions from: 1 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Do I just need to 'buck up' and take it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Please help. I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I've never had intercourse, but he is 23 and has since he was 18... We've done oral mostly, and I've only been fingered a couple of times, with a ton of pain. I...

How can I stop being self-consious during sexual activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - well ive been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we are pretty sexually active. although we both would like to have sex, we want to do other things before that. so far i have tossed my lad off twice and he loves it to say the least. we want t...

I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...

Should I let my husband have sex with my best friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Is it wrong that my husband wants to sleep with my best friend and wants me to join with him we have been with another man but I don't like that fact he wants his turn with a female now we love her both very much she is very close to us like family ...

We've had threesome and now my husband wants to try swinging! But I get upset at the thought of him wanting another woman. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - My husband wants to swing I thought I could try this but I didn't do so well I got mad and had a fight with him. He wants a little fun in our marriage so I thought I could do this I don't know If I can do this without getting mad and arguing with ...

Does he just want sex or does he want to see how things might develop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I am not sure what to think, I have fancied this guy from work for a while, on a recent night out he asked me when we were going to hook up because he knew I fancied him and I said well that depends when you want to go out, he looked and smiled and ...

It's both a turn on to me and sickening that my wife cheated on me.. what'd you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I found out about my wife cheating on me last week. The cheating happened 4 years ago November 2005... I am not sure what and how I should feel. It happened while we lived together, but before we got married. We lived together for about 7 years be...

In her 6 year relationship, she never climaxed: Is this due to an inability or her tensness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - hi. im not sure if this is the right type of question for this site but im gonna write it anyway. Ive started going out with a girl that ive been close to a long time. We had sex last night and she did not orgasm. I mentioned it after because I ...

I've only let it get to a peck on the lips. I've no desire so should I really be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I'm 27 and I've never been in a proper, long-term relationship. First, work got in the way and then I had a few very short term relationships with guys who didn't treat me well. Recently I met a great guy. He's so nice, treats me really well, res...

Is she not orgasming because she is still not over her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is going through a divorce and she has a child with her soon to be ex-husband. She goes over to his house when it is time for her to get her daughter, and she goes into his house. She had him pick her up from the airport when I was ...

I have a deep fetish and can't stop thinking about sex...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hi Guys, I do not know why is this happening. I am always hungry for sex..always...i am committed and we do have sex..its great but we have sex only once a week due to her and my job and we stay separately and she stays with her parents. I am al...

I want to enjoy lovemaking with him but my body gets in the way...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - It started with me gaining a couple of stone in weight, really. With that, my confidence hit the floor and for a while I didn't do anything about my weight. Then - about a month and a half ago, I started a diet and fitness regime ... lower calori...

We'd like to have a baby, but we're not sure if we're doing this right. Can anyone help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I am virgin till now, and me and my boyfriend decided to have a baby, but both of us dont know how it can be possible. he is not able to ejaculate in me, and all of his sperm just went out. he tries to do so but..........is there symptom that shows ...

Me and my boyfriend are having lots of issues around sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 1/2 years now. we have quite a few issues when it comes to sex. we were 16 when we started having sex, and i was self concious because he couldnt make me orgasm...so i faked it because he hated that he ...

My first wasn't a full experience can I share this again fully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - So I am 16 years old goin on 17 and had sex for my first time at 14. We didn't really have sex he put it in and it hurt he only rotated in and out a couple of times we stopped after and did other things. I bleed for a about a week. I keep lookin ...

When I am with a woman I care about, why do I let their sexual history bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I don't think I'm alone, but why is it sex to me often seems like the great equalizer? I've been with women who have long and varied sexual histories and it's never bothered me. But on the few occasions when I was with a woman who I cared about, ...

Whats the difference between cum and sperm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - hey there, ok so this is a simple question what is the difference between cum and sperm ?? i'm a girl so that's why i don't know. i also wanted to know what does ejaculated mean ??? thanks =]...

A man's perspective on blow jobs....!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I need a guy's opinion. Any tips on how to give a great blowjob? What feels best for you when recieving a blowjob. What does she do that really drives you nuts? A man's perspective :D...

Was it the scene or was is something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask something that may seem simple to some people but is confusing me. I have always identified as bisexual and have had 2 serious relationships with women. I am currently single. I am involved in a play at the moment w...

Blow job or no blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - okay so im tired or relationships and n i met this guy pretty eyes n hes lik i dnt want lady but we both like each other we have lik a no strings attach thing and we make ou n what not but he wants me to give him a blow job... i havent done that ...

How do I tell my wife that I want to see her with another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I want to watch my wife have sex with another man but I am not sure how to break the Ice? ...