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writes:I am a 17 year old girl, with an 18 year old boyfriend. (Canada) We've been going out for three months, and we hit 2nd base a while back. He started testing for 3rd, like carressing upper thigh, butt, etc. But he made sure I knew he'd never do anything untill I was sure I wanted to as well. I'm wondering usually how far into the relationship people hit 3rd... no matter the answer I won't till I am ready, but I ask because think I may be getting there, but I dont want to make a mistake, because you can't undo things. Can I have your opinion?If it helps, he is respectful and honest, and would never take advantage of me, and vice verca...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 August 2009):
It's different for everyone depending on how they were brought up and their culture.
Your best bet is talk to your friends about this. Find out how they would act in your place.
As long as you feel ready and are committed to him then it's fine. You are very nearly an adult.
If you can go to war at 18, then surely you can decide when you are ready to go to third base.
Good Luck!! xx
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