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Archived questions from: 24 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Late thirties and single. Am I going to be on my own forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) - How practical and realistic is it for a single woman between the age of 35 to 40 to find a single guy, really??...

I'm going to give my boyfriend a blowjob. Will a condom decrease pleasure, and where can I buy them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - hi, im going to give my boyfiriend a blow job, and he is going to use a condom,... does it increase or decrease the pleasure for the guy if they wear a condom when you give them a blow job?? thanx Im buying condoms for my boyfriend, how can i tell i...

I cant cum when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of new says that he loves everything about me but I can not come with sex. He is use to getting off quick then going a second time for even longer. With me he has no urge to continue a second time. He also says its not that I am not ...

More advice needed please! Is he just being a smooth-talker when he says he doesn't want sex with my friend unless I'm included?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi, want to know under a regestered user name an answer, my hang up is I just dont want him to be more attractied to her than I. He agreed that he would never contact her without me or would he have any sexual activity with her without me, he says ...

I want manageable hair, but also loose and sexy hair for my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I feel rather vain asking this question but hopefully everyone out there can give me another idea. My boyfriend likes my hair down, especially when we're having sex. I usually pull my hair up and definitely want to when it's going to get tangled ...

Me and my husband had a threesome with my friend, he wants to try it again but It's worrying me. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi, My husbamd and I have been married 6 years we are in our 40's my husband and I have sex and talk naughty about threesomes often it is very hot. about 4 years ago we went to a hotel and I got him a stripper it was hot as hell. there was no invas...

What are his real reasons for breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I know what I want. I am successful in business, own my own beautiful home, have a good family, and have interests that I maintain. I am confident and beautiful. We dated for 5 years. We talked about marriage, retiring, building our dream home. ...

My bf has problems keeping it up! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf for 9 months and we both love each other very much, but he tends to lose his erection when i go near him. or like halfway thru sex. but if i am playing with it, it stys hard. he says its not me and that it might be because he ...

Broken up as he didnt love me, but he still wants to have sex with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Hi I am gay my boyfriend has just broken up with me 3 weeks ago. He says he wasnt in love with me as he lost the spark for me but said he still found me amazing in bed so the sex has not stopped. We continue to have sex when we meet. I am trying ...

Could I be getting pregnancy symptoms 10 days after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - i had sex 10 days ago and since yesterday i have been feeling differant eg. i sat down to eat a sandwitch witch my stomake was rumbling for so i sat down to eat it took one mouth full and felt sick and could not eat it anymore and i keep getting ...

How can I make the next time we have sex less painful? And how far inside is the hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend 2 months. I'm a virgin, and until him I hadn't done anything sexually. We tried having sex last week but he only got in a couple of inches before I could take the pain no more. How can I lessen the pain? We ...

I couldn't feel anything during sex, did he have that feeling too so he hasn't contacted me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Thank you and hello Andrew.I justwanted to ask a personal question that's quite embarrassing but has been weighing on my mind.On Thursday night my friend and i had sex for the first time before he left for his hometown.We've discussed having sex ...

7 days pill break equals no sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are starting to get closer in bed, im still a virgin but I know he is the right guy and we're going to be togeter forever. But the only proble is im on my 7 day break on the pill. Ive heard that you're not supposed to have sex for ...

How can we improve things in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - when my boyfriend and i have sex its great i love it but i wish he would show me more moves and get in to it more he said he is in to it but sometimes i dont think he is and i like to talk to dirty but he has a hard time doin that and i dont know ...

When I tell guys I'm dating that sex is important to me, they laugh! Is what I'm saying weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hello So, i have been single for around six or seven months and it does not bother me (right now), i get alot of attention from guys and go on many dates, the problem is if im not sleeping with the guy on the third/fourth date or time i see t...

About how long does it take to enjoy sex... since first time sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - hey everyone :) quick question....about how long does it take to enjoy sex?? i lost my virginity last month; the first time hurt a little so i tried to relax and that worked. so the next time i did the same thing....but it didnt feel "good...

My younger cousin touched me in my sleep, and is now threatening to tell her parents that I made her do it!! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - I have a problem I'm 18 and my cousin has a girlfriend she's like 40 and she has a lil girl that's about 10 I think I know them about 2 years now they all ways come over to my house and about a month ago the lil girl (madelin) came over the house ...

Don't want it to end, but scared I am no longer 'in' love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years now. I was madly in love with him and I still do love him but I am scared I am no longer 'in' love with him. I have to make a decision about what to do. We have always had hard things to deal with. He...

I don't totally trust the pill and don't want my boyfriend to wear a condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I wrote a while back with a question about the pill. Now I really do not know what to do. Basically I'm worrying a lot that the pill won't work and I will get pregnant whilst using it. I just cannot trust it no matter how hard I try. ...