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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How can I accept husband's impotence without any medical reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - My husband puts me thru a lots of sexual wondering. He lost his erection several years ago, in the middle of an intercourse. Than he stopped getting erections all together, and lost his sexual desire 100%. I mean, never asked for sex, no touch, no ...

I married at 20. Now I've fallen for a colleague. He has a Gf. Is my colleague playing mind games with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi all. I 30 years old and I am madly in love with my colleague and we are having an affair. When we met it was a moment where I took one look at him and felt electric heart-pounding it felt like I knew him already. We hit it off immediately but ...

How do I refocus & find out if I can continue to stay in my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I've been married for 16 hrs. I am 45 hrs old and have 2 boys with my husband. My husband works a day job as well as a 2nd shift job. I work in the morning part time and the rest of my time is devoted to my boys their schools and sports. My ...

A phone call shattered my world, find out husband had an affair. If I leave will it stop the pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi One evening I got a call from a girl saying to ask my husband who she is. I asked ... it is a work collegue who he has being having an affair with for 4 months. He said he ended it 1 month ago and didnt have sex. I believe him and he's promise...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

He won't let us sleep in the same bed! How to get our love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Been with my husband 25 years! But we have not slept in the sane bed for 11 years and he lost interest in sex-until 2 years ago when a neighbour came on to him - he does have problem with Erectile Dysfunction. The affair is over -but he still wo...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

Married four years and she does not want to work. I'm ready to walk. What would you advise?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hi I have a question we been Married four years. Before that she was working. Now she feels she doesn't have to work. I talk to her about getting a job. She won’t do it, and I'm tired of doing it all. He is no help. Instead she wants me to do a lot...

Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...

My wife is constantly texting another man, asked me to move out and yet says she wants to work on things!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi. I have used this site a few times and thank those who have added comments, it helps. Will try to be brief here... Married for 12 years, 3 great kids. Wife and I have always been great friends, quite a bit in common but our sex life has...

I've been married 18 years and have attracted a new butterfly. What do I do about my wife and son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - hi,i'm 48 yr old man, been married 18 yrs, one child, 3 months ago i meant a woman, 45 yrs old, it started out with a casual flirt which later ended up with lunch dates everyday for a month, during our lunch encounters we learned we basically are ...

My husband won't help with the housework and verbally abuses me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 12 years although we have only been married 1 year i raised his daughter and now i am rasing his three grandchildren whom i love dearly problem being he dont help me with housework he thinks he dont do ...

Should I take off 2 months to be with my LDR husband or not and make him wake up and realize he needs to end the distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hi dear cupids, I am in a long-distance marriage. In the past 2 years I've managed to take a few months off my job in order to fly abroad and be with my husband- i didn't get paid during those months off, but I got to spend time with him which was ...

My wife's continous chatting with x husband is killing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

27 January 2013 (M) - My wife of one year ( my second and her third marriage ) continues to communcicate with her x husband whom she left. He has not moved on and still loves her and seems to me to be controlling with narisistic behavior via email,skype etc. She responds ...

Husband texting ex and making comments about me that are leaving me feeling very insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I heard my now husband tell a friend of his that I was not much to look at but I make him happy. It killed me inside. I asked him about and basically said I took it out of context and has since made me feel like a beautiful princess and we have ...

Searched signs of cheating on the internet and she's hitting them all. What should I do or think? She's done it in the past.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - do you think because shes cheated and dumped me numerous times for other guys n a girl in the past that she could be hiding it and doing it still weve talked about the past and i still am hurt from the facts of the past, hell i might have a complex ...

I'm married but it's a LDR. I cheated with a friend who's also married. I don't want to break up our marriages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for a...

What can I do? My husband talks about this woman he works with all the time. Yet he can't take two minutes to speak to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - When my husband is at work he can't take two minutes to talk to me on the phone but I hear from his co-workers that he is in their offices and about all the good times they have. I told him it hurts my feelings that he can't give me the time of ...

I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004 we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery. I suspect and i think she's cheating on me. Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i ho...

I confronted my husband about flirting with girls and now he has turned cold on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - How can I improve my relationship with my husband?I found out that he was flirting with girls that he termed as just friends,I confronted him,but todate he has completely changed.He treats me coldly,doesnt show any affection,is never interested in ...

Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...

He doesn't look at me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - Hi, everyone. first thing is that I am married, but someone has come to my life and has me all confused. My husband and me are having to many problems. OK getting to the point. I met this guy about a year ago, he works at his father store just a ...

Husband went to a massage parlour but said there was no sexual activity. I can't believe him and I'm a wreck.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - Here it goes. I have two children. One that is 2 and one that is 2 months. I just found out 3 weeks ago that my Husband went to three massage parlors through the past year. The first time he went was a month before I got pregnant. I confront...

We are married but separated and husband has signed up for dating site. What steps do I take now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - Hello I've had problems since I married and moved in together (been married 2 years. We have taken a 'break' where he has moved out. I find im a happier on my own, no stress of arguing about how much he drinks each evening, him not going to bed...

Is my fiancé acting up? Has she been too spoilt in the past? Not sure what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

23 January 2013 (M) - So here's my story. My fiancé and I are supposed to be getting married in July but we have been having problems. We have been engaged since March 2012. To give some quick background we have dated for 4 years and lived together for 3. We live...

Married to a man 20 years older than I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - This is a letter I am sending to my husband.. I have no idea how he is going to respond.. So if your a guy.. Please feel free to reply.. That way I can prepare myself.. For whatever transpires. Thanks "Since I spoke to you about us.. You m...

How do I get over constantly feeling anxious about my husband working with so many girls who idolize him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for five years. Three years into our relationship, he got a new job. He manages a store, with a lot of employees. He works closely with a lot of females, all of which of course idolize him as he's the boss. One ...

How to cope when told your husband doesn't love you the same as he used to? A 40 year marriage down the drain?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - After almost 40 years of what I thought was a happy marriage my 62 year old husband said he needed space and I spent all my time and energy on the family and looking after the grand children, he felt lonely. We had had our daughter, her husband and ...

How do I deal with my controlling and emotionally abusive wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

21 January 2013 (M) - My wife is controlling and emotionally abusive. She is also very generous, but then uses the generosity as a way to martyr herself. She always thinks no one understands how "bad" she has it, owning her own business, me in graduate school, and with ...

Marriage is just about over but I still have questions ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - It has been one month since I last wrote to this site. I can't say that a lot has happened until about two weeks ago... I sought out counselling finally! He is very supportive and listens to me. Right now I'm at a major intersection and...

Would I be a horrible wife if I found another home for this terrible dog?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do about my husband's dog! He found the dog wondering the streets and took him in when no one claimed him. This was before we even started dating. I quickly realized why no one wanted to claim this dog... He was not potty ...

How do I live the rest of my life married to someone I don't love and I can't marry again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 30+ years old Indian (Asian) women with a great career. Married but not living with my husband (no kids, he is impotent), it was arranged marriage we never got along well. Trying for divorce, but my husband wants to give this ano...

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

I am my husband's punching bag! I'm very lonely in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - My husband is 12 years older then I. We dated for 1.5. Then married. I feel so lonely in this marriage. He complains about everything. Talks about everyone behind their backs. But will not confort them. So i become the punching bag. He allows people ...

Should I try to discourage him from wanting to be married to me? Or end the marriage? Could I get transitional housing to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Married for over 11-12 years with passive aggressive husband who constantly diminishes my every move. I have 2 sons who are 8 and 10, and a daughter who just turned 1. Scared that no one will take care of me when I get old. I'm always good at my o...

Help, I've pushed my husband away and don't know what to do!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I met my husband on a christian dating site. We hit it off right away and a year later got married. It was our second marriage for both of us. I Think he was more realistic when he married me, knowing that there may be some unresolved issues that ...

I'm playing with fire with an 18 year old co-worker that also works with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 January 2013 (?) - I'm 36 and have been married for 15 years,we have 3 children and have been happy for most of our married life. I've recently been getting feelings for an 18 year old girl at work and we have been flirting by text and she claims she fancies me ...

Sexless marriage driving me crazy !

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 January 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I love my wife very much but I am going insane. We have sex once in three months. I feel a physical disconnect even though I try to cuddle kiss and initiate love making. I believe that in life if you do not want something to hap...

Husband obsessed with teenage girls, trying to be ok now but I feel depressed I keep getting images in my head

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I am 28 next month, my husband is 30, we've been together 13 years, we have 2 children and he has constanly cheated on me!, all of them much younger, mostly teenagers!, I have gone through his phone and emails and facebook and found out there's ...

When my husband wants sex, I'm always available, but when I want it, I have to wait till he wants to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband 11 years. We both enjoy sex very much and now I'm pregnant with our 4th child. He wants sex all the time and usually when he wants it I give it, however, when I want it I have to wait til he feels like giving it. I feel ...

Husband swears he didn't call a prostitute but the phone shows differently. He has a story, should I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I don't trust my husband after past events, so I check up on some of the things he does like check the call log and emails on his phone. The other day, I seen that he made a blocked call to a number I didn't recognize. So I googled the number and it ...

After 40 years of being married to an alcoholic, I am leaving him. People tell me not to, why not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for 40 years to an alcoholic, He quit for 12 years and started drinking again, and he has gotten worse. I should have left him years ago,but I like so many others stayed for my two kids. THis was a bad decision, because for ...

My husband left me to go to the states while I wait for my visa. I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - i got married two month back and a two weeks ago my husband left me and went to states and i am here waiting for my visa to come. the problem is that i miss him alot. i spend most of the day looking at his picture and crying.we videotalk on a daily ...

Husband sent a "lets have sex" message to a colleague

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - My husband went out a few weeks ago with his friends to a concert. In the morning he was a bit hungover, but got up, went to the washroom and then hid his phone. I felt bad for snooping, but I wondered why he hid his phone so I found it and looked ...

Is my new Bf asking too much? He's upset because I don't want to sell my old wedding ring.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I am currently going through a divorce. My ex and I have been separated for a year and a half. I started dating my boyfriend 6 months after my separation started. I have recently fallen on hard financial times and lost my job. My current boyf...

If I confront my husband, who cheated in the past, with these texts, he'll take issue with my snooping. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - About 3 years ago I found out that my husband had been joining dating sites, and chatting and cheating on me with other women he had met on these sites. This had been going on behind my back for 5 years. I realise how good he is at keeping secrets ...

Am I crazy for feeling guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - Am I crazy for feeling guilty? My husband and I are separated. Many things led up to the separation including verbal and emotional abuse, lack of trust, lack of communication, and a lot of resentment. At the very end however, I told my husband ...

Marriage has broken down. He won't talk about it, won't try to fix it but hasn't moved out of the house. The pain is overwhelming.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for 10 yrs, a stay at home mom for 8yrs. Two months ago my husband told me he doesn't feel anything for me anymore and doesn't want to be with me. We still live together, I still cook and clean up after him. We still share th...

I'm pregnant and our sex life has dwindled. What can I do to get him keen again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - My sex life has been in a lull since I've been pregnant, and particularly since I started showing. It seems whenever I want to have sex, but husband isn't that interested, but when he's usually interested, it's in the middle of the night when I'm ...

Is there any truth to these lies and excuses from my husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - On 3 different occasions I found condoms in my husbands truck. To start with, ever since he got this truck it never left his side and after awhile I noticed he was going out of his way to make sure I couldn't go in there. He would lock it up and ...