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I confronted my husband about flirting with girls and now he has turned cold on me

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Question - (25 January 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2013)
A female Kenya age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How can I improve my relationship with my husband?I found out that he was flirting with girls that he termed as just friends,I confronted him,but todate he has completely changed.He treats me coldly,doesnt show any affection,is never interested in in sex n still keeps in touch with ex- girlfriend who threatened to get me out of my matrimonial house.Pls advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2013):

Leave the guy and all the trouble he's carrying. He's not taking you seriously and you don't need the threats either from his ex(s). You deserve better.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (25 January 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthow can you improve the relationship with a man who is at minimum emotionally cheating on you.

He is not interested in intimacy with you.

He's not willing to take your needs/desires/wants into consideration.

He's not affectionate or kind

WHAT exactly are you getting out of this marriage?

would you consider leaving? because I think that's what you may have to do.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (25 January 2013):

janniepeg agony auntIf you knew your husband is that way you would have never married him. He will be that way whether or not you confronted him. He is only upset that he got caught. His ex is targetting the wrong person here. The level of hatred she has shows that your husband had been stringing her along, probably telling her he still loves her but yet marries you. Your husband has not been truthful from the beginning and you really should rethink your marriage. There is no relationship here. We make mistakes in our choice of partners but what you do here is stop making excuses for your husband. Start demanding more from a relationship and get to know a man for a longer time before marrying.

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