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writes:I need some advice.I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for about 2 more years because of our jobs. It happened 2 months ago when a friend on facebook started communicating with me regularly. He's married but got some problems with his wife. We talked and shared almost everything. We cheered us up and gave each other advice. Just the comfortable feelings which made us become pretty close. However we hadn't met yet till one night we met up first time for dinner then heading to a gay pub. It happened that we turned out spend the night together that night.I know what I want and he knows so. We don't wanna break our marriages but at the moment we're both missing a piece in our lives which we kinda find from each other. We haven't met since that night however we still talked online. He seems really struggling with everything, job, marriage and things with me. He told me he's afraid of falling for me which I don't want to. It just hit the point that I had to cut him off on facebook, unfriended him. He didn't help me to get things over but still messaging me. We both want each other sexually and mentally. But to me it's clearly not love. I just don't know what should I do. Keep ignoring him? I'm afraid I will kindly get back to him, then we chat and sex would just happen again.Give me some advices please.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 again with the facebook kill shot. why anyone even uses facebook is beyond me.
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reader, R1  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 This is a weird situation. what job could you possibly have that is more important than your marriage? move in with your husband and sort stuff out or split up.
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