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writes:My husband puts me thru a lots of sexual wondering. He lost his erection several years ago, in the middle of an intercourse. Than he stopped getting erections all together, and lost his sexual desire 100%. I mean, never asked for sex, no touch, no nothing,.Like suddenly went from sex to no sex/ an Asexual/. Now , here comes the difficult part. He went to total check up, but they never found anything wrong with his health, or hormones. Also, he is getting night erections. So he is healthy/.He says , its not me/// But it is like this now 6 years ago. And I dont know what to do. He went to see a shrink, but he says , the shrink, couldn't tell what goes on with him. My dilemma is , how can I accept his impotence without any medical reason? Also what could be wrong with him? I hope someone heard about simular issues, because I tried reading about it, but found nothing, what was similar to my case. Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 February 2013):
 It's not you.
when was the last time he had a prostate exam?
when was the last time he had a hormonal work up?
if he could not get an erection but was able to love you with affection and cuddles and emotional intimacy and possibly oral sex would you be happy with that?
if so you must talk to him about this.
IF he refuses to talk to you about it, then you have to ask him if he wants to save the marriage... you are too young to live like this for the rest of your life and both parties have to want a marriage to work.
I could live without intercourse... I could not live without intimacy. I could not live without my kisses and my cuddles and my partner being emotionally close to me...
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (1 February 2013):
 Maybe hes gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2013): Please don't do an open marriage. That's one step away from no longer being married to him. If you can't deal with your marriage, it may be time to leave.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (31 January 2013):
 Sounds like the visit to the shrink was a one-time visit. Maybe he needs to go more often for the doctor effectively make a diagnosis/get to get a whole view of the underlying situation.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (31 January 2013):
I don't know how to answer your questions but if you're incredibly frustrated here than you may consider talking with him about an open marriage.
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