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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:When my husband is at work he can't take two minutes to talk to me on the phone but I hear from his co-workers that he is in their offices and about all the good times they have. I told him it hurts my feelings that he can't give me the time of day but then I hear things like this from his coworkers.. When I bring it up and try to talk to him about it he gets defensive and tells me I am jealous and I need to get over myself. I am also so tired of hearing about how great this women he keeps talking about is. He talks about her so much I asked him if he has a crush on her? He denied that of course. I can't helping feeling mad and hurt .. What should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): Liste, I've never understood the need for couples to be calling each other in the middle of the workday... you will meet after work so what's the big deal? In fact, it's a major sign of relationship insecurity of you are constantly calling him when you know that he is at work...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2013): Okey, the telling him to call .. The telling him its hurting your feelings is not working here is it..Then rekindle some mysteriousness about yourself, don't ask him to call in fact in the morning gush that your meeting a friend you haven't seen since high school for little light lunch and maybe (hic hic) a drop of vino.. (Wine) says she soo keen on meeting haha and that you are planning a girls night out, dancing etc.. If he starts about, work colleague then go 'yes darling she sounds lovely, but wait until I tell you about ? (add any name here ), she is just soo hyper (energetic) haha I can't wait until lunch.And keep this up for a few weeks. I bet hell get sick of it and the chit chatting about this girl will fade.. Go out .. Do not answer if he calls text him back and tell him your busy and he was right, you are now getting over yourself .. Don't not get jealous, do not cry, whinge or tell him about your feelings as at the minute he to concerned with his own. Make yourself elusive it will drive your husband mental, buy new undies but do not wear them for him just put them in the drawer and say they're for a special occasion .. If he says for me.. Go hmm if your lucky and laugh.. Keep cheerful, be light this will do his nut in and at the end of the day you will win..Chin up babe, keep smiling, remember its your turn to turn the table just a little....
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