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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I've ended and affair, but I'm having trouble moving on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2100 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a married female 32 years of age, and recently ended a four month affair with a married man,2 kids, same age as myself. He worked in the same building, and after many months of serious eye contact, approched me and we started off just...

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I ...

Her husbands friend is BAD NEWS and their marriage is being wrecked

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My cousin who I love dearly is married and 7 months pregnant. They are in their thirties, him approaching his forties. They have been married for almost two years. I am becoming quite concerned with her husband. He has this friend who he met over ...

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it...

Husband is happy to be nothing more than a roommate. I need him as a man. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband asked me for space and time three months ago. I was in our house by myself the whole time, I was working overtime because I wanted to be busy all the time.(no kids- no family, we are both are foreign) Now he is back and he says to me th...

How can I get my husband to make love to me, rather than just having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - [MOD NOTE] User has written duplicates of one question, so we have combined the two in one post. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't know how to make love to me. He thinks that having sex is making love. How do I make him understand the d...

My wife refuses to try anything new in the bedroom! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - my wife and i have been married for 18 years but have known each other over 20 years, she is 44 , i am 57,she is not adventurous at all in the bedroom. i have asked to do a few things like, play with her breasts when we make love, i have asked her ...

I want to divorce my husband and marry my soul mate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am a lady of 40years has been married over 12years. I like my husband and has three kids with the youngest 3 years.I have really never been in love with my husband though I like him and actually ,he is a caring husband and a father every woman ...

My husband is doing a 360 about our separation, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) - help me my husband has done a 360 with our separation..he is taunting a man who is emailing me...when I ask him if he loves this woman hes with he ignores me and asks about the man whos chasing me..... what does he want...I keep asking him do yo...

Husband texting someone 100 times a day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I just found out my husband has been texting another women all the time sometimes 100 times a day. When I confronted him he said they were just friends and she is just someone funny to talk to. When I asked him to explain why he accuses me of not ...

My egyptian's BF family is racist when it comes to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are discussing marriage at the moment but we have a lot of difficulties to overcome first. I'm white british muslim convert and he's egyptian muslim. he told his family about me just recently (we've been together for 2 years). his ...

We recently seperated and now she only contacts me for money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - OK ladies i need your help. me and my wife had a big argument over a month ago. we recently seperated. according to her this is just temporary and she just needs time. now the only time she contacts me is for money. It's only been four days and im ...

We've been married a year and it's not working out. Any suggestions on how to fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - my husband and i are separated. we meet up every couple of days but nothings changed. he is still nasty to me. treats and talks to me in a horrid manner. its the main reason we separated. weve only been married just over a year and things have never ...

Should I feel guilty because I sit at a community table talking politics and local government with these old men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have never done anything in all of my years of marriage that is unfaithful I've never even thought of it to be honest I've always loved my husband even though he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to me for the entire marriage. In our home ...

Unhappy with my husband's online activity....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Me an my husband have been rowing a little (well up and down) he is always in Twitter I don't know his name or nothing. I went on history on pc an seen he's been on dirty dating sites but whats hurt the most is that it asked him to write what he ...

My wife speaks very nasty to me when upset over minor things, and expects me to forget what is said

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - My wife and I have had a wonderful relationship for 15 years...(3 arguments if you can believe it). Lately, she has been getting very nasty, over minor disagreements. While upset, she has said things such as she doesn't care what i think, she ...

Frustrated with our sex life, what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4904 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - We have been married for 13 yrs. He was basically a virgin except that there were already some preconceived misgivings and anticipation on his part.(Backward communication and not very forward thinking or fun experimentation etc..)He was/is unsure ...

How do I get rid of these stupid thoughts about something that happened over 30 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a horrible dilemma, probably more medical but I'm even beginning to wonder about that too. I have been married to the same beautiful woman for the past 28 years and been with her for over 32 years. We met when I was 17 and she ...

Mid-life crisis, depression or right to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for nearly 17 and we have a young son. We recently went through counselling on account of me getting seriously interested in sex over and above anything I've been interested in before. The ...

I don't want to stay with her, but I'm afraid what will happen if I divorce her. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - I am 32 years old and I've been married for almost 6 years now. While my wife is a wonderful person, a great friend and I do love her dearly in a "family" type of way, I feel absolutely no passion or physical chemistry in our relationship. She is an ...

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

Married 4 years and we have never had sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - i have been married for four years but have not had intercourse with my husband. he is little shy n in the beginning never took an initiative but he masturbates on regular basis. he even refuses to see a doctor. with much pressure from my end we ...

My wife enjoys telling me all about her past sexual encounters...is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - my wife tole me about all her sexual encounters after her devorce from her st husband and seemed to enjoy telling me even though I hadn't asked. Is this normal.? xxx...

In the garbage I find evidence of my wife's affair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I am in a situation that has devastated me. I have always trusted my wife of 15 years, was not suspicious or jealous of her having multiple male friends (mostly musicians with whom she performed amateur sesssions), and in general did not worry about ...

I don't understand why my husband watches porn and it hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Why do men like to watch porn? I was raised in a christian family, and for me that is so hard to take...I feel betrayed when I find out that my husband was watching it and masturbating...and the worst is, i feel like he does not find me attractive ...

Is he being selfish for repeatedly bringing up the fact I cant have kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 13 years. He has 3 kids by 3 different women - 2 of these children were born when he had just graduated from high school. the other child was born 2 years before I met him. He and I tried having a child but we ...

Isn't love in your actions, not your words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am married, and very unhappy as late. My husband is a kind man, but is also very inconsiderate and rarely expells any energy on me. He works long hours, and spends his free time working on his car. Which is all fine, but lately I am feeling ver...

My soon to be ex husband is moving on so quickly and I'm confused

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - So I am having issues coping with my feeling here. I was married for 8 years to a very wonderful father of our 2 kids but a really crappy and neglecting husband. It was wrong but I ended up having an emotional affair with a colleuge of mine. We ...

Do you think I was cheated on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Do you think i was cheated on? About 3 months ago..my female housemate of two years moved out to go back home overseas after finishing a degree, her boyfriend stayed living with us for a couple more months. At this point it is me, my husband,...

My soon to be ex-husband has hurt me very badly, but says he doesn't want me to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I need advice! Myself and my ex separated now x2 yrs ago, but i still have some feelings for him. I have let him stay in my house until he finds somewhere else to live (raise a deposit). He does support us financially but he constantly reminds me ...

I want my marriage back, but my feelings for the other woman are keeping me from rekindling my relationship with my wife.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - I really need some help on this one. In prior posts I spoke of how after a 6 year marriage and two kids, my marriage was failing due to a lack of intimacy, attraction and just all out togetherness. We never fought or argued, we just drifted apart. ...

My wife's comments about sex since I had my surgery really hurt my feelings.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 5 years. I'm 40 and she's 36. We met through a dating site and had a super intense sex life. Both of us have extensive sexual histories. She has had threesomes which she blames on an abusive ex and many part...

Should I accept my husband's solution? Our arranged marriage is not working out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - mine was an arranged marriage two years back.we both are highly qualified doctors.before the marriage my parents made very clear about the dowry demand and my not knowing cooking. inspite of that my inlaws made a demand for the list of furniture ...

I thought I was happily married until this....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I'm in a program that takes me away from home several nights a week and I'm with the same group of people each of those nights. I feel like what started off as simple flirting is escalating. I thought I was happily married until this. I find ...

I make all the money, take care of the children, and clean the house. Should I go for my office mate whom I love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I am married for 11 years now, and my husband doesn't work, he works on his own art which is good but makes little or no money. He is dependent on me for 10 years now. He has many issues like he cannot talk to people who are in a respecta...

My husband has tuned out of our marriage in every way. What are my options now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Dear Friends, Please guide me. I am alone in this country and have no friends to discuss my problems. my husband and i were in love and married 10 yers ago.. now we have a daughter of 4 years. My husband is annoying with me all the time. .. he ...

We had a fight and he just walked out! Can I stay with someone who would leave like that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Please help me! My husband walked out on my 6 days ago after a fight. He said he was going to stay at his mothers. I don't like a husband can just up and leave like this I never would do this to him. He has try to call but I'm to hurt to answer I ...

Is there any advise on how to motivate a lazy man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (?) - I've been with my husband 6 years, married for 3. Throughout that time I've constantly been aware of his lack of motivation but I love him and I married him anyway. Five years ago, he took a really low paid job (just because it was the first on...

I want out of my marriage but don't know how or when to tell my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I am married for 5 years, and we've been together before we got married for 9 years. we were madly in love. he is still in love with me... I know that. and he is a very nice guy. the thing is, we don't have too much in common. his ideas and thoughts ...

I was never jealous until I married my wife

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26 March 2011 (M) - I have a big issue. i never thought i was a jealous person untill i got married. i love my wife more intensely than words can describe and she has given me no reason not to trust her. but every time she goes out with friends or generally anytime im ...

An overture for a divorce or a passing crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Have you ever loved someone who unintentionally turned you into the worst version of yourself? I hate where I am and who I am right now. Let me redefine “right now”… how about the past 6 years? Times are tough for everyone. Crisis, lack of ...

My husband is having an emotional affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

25 March 2011 (?) - - hubby is having an emotional affair..The girl start flirting...sharing jokes and questions about herselF i.,e my bad and good habits...beautiful tfhing on my faceher familY matters and issues even her secrets...ask for hnelp for every family ...

At the end of the day I'm not sure where we are anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I met my now second Husband in May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 and he was in the process of splitting with his ex. After six weeks the relationship was going strong h...

My wife had a one night stand for years ago but won't tell me his name. What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

24 March 2011 (M) - my wife cheated (one night stand) on me 4 years ago. it was a one night. she just confessed what she calls everything.....But she will not tell me her friends name. What's up with that??? The reason that it is important is this guy works at a f...

In an un happy marriage and in love with my first love. How do I get back with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - Ok so let me start from the beginning. I am a good person who until recently has never cheated on another man in my life. I am very unhappily in a verbally and somewhat physically abusive marriage of nearly 10 years. We have an 8 year old ...

We're swinging with my best friend and her husband...She says if we end it their marriage will end!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - My husband an I are involved with another couple. Its complicated. Best friends with benefits, my best friend sleeps with my husband and I with hers. I think we should all give it up but when we attempt it we all end up missing each other too much...

I've been sexting with a friend and he wants to stop now. Can we still be friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - I am married and had been chatting with a married friend via text, chat, phone sometimes- mostly sexual talk. We are both very attracted to each other, have a lot in common and definitely have chemistry. He would tell me how much he thinks abou...

I'm worried that I'm staying with him out of guilt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - I cheated on my husband last friday..... And now im lost...I need advice. Let me give you some history. I was married at 18 ,we have been married for five years and have two beautiful children, My husband up until this point had been the only man ...

He doesn't want sex very much, has he gone off me?

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24 March 2011 (F) - i have been married for under 2 years and at first the sex was great with my husband but now it seems he cant be bothered we have sex once a week or once a fortnight and it does'nt last very long, i don't want to say anything to him in case it ...