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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Why is my husband comparing our marriage to my best friend's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hi there, i've been married for merely two months and already I'm miserable! For the past two weeks we've beem arguing none stop. last nite he told me that I should be more like my best friend (who also recently got married) and be more of a woman ...

My wife implicitly condones an affair. Instead of elated, I am mortified!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 20 years. In that time our sex life has been meager. Lately, if we have sex once per year we are doing good. My wife and I have started (for the fourth time - this happens every years or so) to talk about the proble...

I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me but I cant seem to move on and it still hurts so bad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Why can't I move on, why is the pain still so raw? I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me. I want to be able to move on, I want to smile again so why can't I. I still love him and wish I didn't because he as changed so much ...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

My affair ended abruptly and the lady just disappeared without saying a word.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hi! I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. I have been married for almost 6 1/2 years now and had been having problems with my marriage. I have been working so hard in communicating with my wife what the problems are but she just doesn't...

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, ...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

I'm not sure where I stand with my FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I'm married but its falling apart he cheated on me lied constantly, hurt me, ignored me. I started an affair with a friend, I know its wrong. We've been on and off for about 9 months now. When it started I didn't mean for it all but i fell for my ...

Were married, I don't want her meeting up with him !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Back in April I caught my wife texting a friend of hers in ways I did not think were appropriate. They were arranging to meet for dinner and drinks without me knowing, for instance. I sat her down and asked her what the deal was. She told me that...

I'm starting to hate my husband but baby number 2 is on the way! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my spouse for 6 years, since i was 18 years old iv been with him. im starting to hate my husband and i cant seem to know why. i just do. we fight alot. we both disagree alot. even when we spend time alone together theres an akward ...

Guilty or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi i am a Pakistani girl and a muslim. So here is my story. I married my first cousin (my mother's sister son) back in 2008. But now we are divorced. The problem is i am a little guilty because it was I who asked for divorce due to several reasons. ...

Will he ever be nice to me? How do I get my husband to respect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I Have been married for nearly 40 years. I married when very young. How can i get my husband to respect me? I have 2 children. The first left when he was 16 as he saw a lot going on here. The 2nd my husband loves very much. I have helped him to do ...

I finally left my husband of 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but I don't know how to deal with the pain

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - how do you survive after the cheating..? i finally left my husband for 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but i don't know how to deal with the pain ...

Had an affair and now I'm trying to work on things with my wife but the thought of anything intimate disgusts me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Ok agony aunts i need your help in the worst way! Heres my problem. My wife and i have been going thru some major issues that have been causing a rift between us. Just know that regardless of my actions i do love her and i do regret what ive ...

I'm in a FWB with a married woman who used to be more loving. I'm confused, what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I am a married separated man in mid 40's, i have been separated for 5 years and am still friends with wife, we see each other 3 times a week but there is no sex. I have had 2 serious relationships in the past 5 years, niether worked out because ...

If there is no medical reason, what else could be the problem if my husband never wants to have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - What can I do ,if my husband can't tell,why does he not want to have sex with me? If there is no medical reason, what else could be the reason, if your husband never cares about sex ,yet he used to. I asked him, he says ,he doesn't know why. He did ...

My GF has severe insecurity issues. How can I explain to her that her feelings are unwarranted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is insecure. To be fair here, I am a 39 separated guy. I have been separated for a while from my wife and it was by my choice and her and DO NOT want to work it out but there is a child between us. I am in the construction ...

What are the signs of a man who has fallen out of love with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - What are the signs of a man who has fallen out of love with you? My husband never seems happy any more and even though he says he loves me (sometimes but not often) and we still have sex, he is constantly harping on me about something he perceives ...

Am I being selfish, is it just me? Or is my husband simply just not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My husband is very unromantic and makes little effort towards me. He is not a mean man, but isn't very giving. He is a hard worker and we have young children, and he works hard at work and helping with the yard and kids. He is also not a cheating ...

I think my man is gay but not sure. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - when we first got together i just knew he was my husband sex was never an issue but everything changed when we moved n together he was super controlling we argued everyday we only had sex once a month n if i wanted more sex he would say i was ...

Could it be that alcohol makes his personality better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I've heard women complain that when they're husbands drink they become obnoxious and abusive, but has anyone ever heard of alcohol actually making someone's personality better? My husband had to quit drinking 2 years ago for health reasons. He ...

My husnband sucks my breasts in his sleep

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - hello i have a doubt, my husband and i used to sleep naked at night, every thing is perfect, but in sleep he use to suckle my boobs, like baby, i suddenly woke up and asked whats wrong, he tells i am sorry, after a while he again starts sucking,...

Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...

I just found out the guy my wife lost her viginity to had a bigger penis

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - hi just found out the guy my wife lost her virginty to was my 2nd cousin after 22 years of married life when she blurted out his name by mistake i asked her his name and found out he had a bigger penis and said she was sorry had i known this i would ...

Somebody is 'planting' panties

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - My wife recently discovered a pair of panties which were obviously planted by (we suspect) during a recent visit by an envious/jealous guests (younger adult neice). Luckily, my wife knows I had nothing to do with the matter. Any suggestions on how ...

I am really torn because I don't want to stop the affair but I am also afraid of moving forward.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I really need some help. I am a married man with a young child. For the past six months, I have been friends with a woman in our circle of friends whom I am very attracted to. We have flirted and it is clear that we have a connecti...

He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...

My husband has just gone into a home and I am missing company from the opposite sex. Is it possible to have a male friend whilst being broken hearted over my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I have just recently put my husband into a nursing home and i am just one year retired. I have been his advocate for various health issues for 15 yrs. (HE is 71 AND I AM 63) I AM in my early 60s not looking for a mate just get togethers with the ...

I love my wife but am no longer sexually attracted to her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Ok, so the last thing I want is to be made to feel guilty, as I already do. All I want is some advice before I lose my mind... My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have been together for 7. We have a 2 yr old son who we both love to piece...

My boyfriend says he is getting divorced but his soon-to-be ex wife just moved back in, should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Hi. Some background 1st, I guess would be helpful. I'm 25, my BF is 41 and his "soon to be" ex wife is 35ish. (Not real sure) Anyway they were together 8yrs and have 2 younger kids together (6 and 10). We have been dating just over 6months now ...

Is this marriage worth fighting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - We're in our late 30s and we've been married for a decade. She was a little overweight then, and became moreso, and has now been (my best guess, she won't ever tell me real numbers) 90-100 lbs overweight for most of our marriage. It tears me apart...

Helppp!!! Should I tell him how I feel before it's too late???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - I am seperated from my husband. I have being seeing a guy for two and a half years. He has a partner (he is divorced). He has a partner and has done since I've known him. We have been having a sexual relationship. We were friends before this all ...

My husband is never happy and verbally abusive, now I am wondering if my children and I would be better off without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hi I'm new to this sort of thing but here goes. I'm a mum of 2 beautiful children, one aged 8 and a new baby of 8 weeks. My husband and I just can't seem to get along and it's got nothing to do with the new baby this has been going on for years...

My marriage problems are making me miss my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - I am married for more than 1 and a half yr, and as the days are passing i am missing my ex more everyday... I cry hours just remembering his cute gestures of care. he was a very loving man... now you must be thinking why the hell I am not with him ...

Is it that bad that I get frequent pictures of my newborn nephew from my sister? My wife is making a big deal out of this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - I have been a husband for almost 5 years now. My wife and I fight all the time. I wanted to get advice for the most recent reason she got mad at me. My sister just had a baby a few weeks ago and has been sending me a text message with a picture ...

How can I love him again like I used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for 13 years. We have 3 children under the age of 6. It took 6 years of trying for my first child, and the other 2 came very soon after. My partner is loving, caring, and a great dad, but I worry my love for him has ...

How can I build a happy marriage when its so one sided? I feel so hurt and alone.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I'm having problems with my husband. He makes very little effort at all. His whole life revolves around going to work, coming home and being with our kids, working on his car, the yard and renovating the house and in the evening its a toss up ...

What are the next steps to revive a sexless marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - I have posted to this forum before about my sexless marriage. My wife and I have been together 19 years and have not had a sex life in about 16 years, having sex maybe a dozen times in that span and none at all in the last 5 years. Thanks to ...

My wife slept with my best friend before I dated her and its on my mind day and night.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - It sounds silly but here it is. my wife dated my best friend before me. Its been almost 20 years and i cant get over the fact that he had sex with her.I dont understand how my mind works. my wife and i have swung with other couples when we were ...

No money for food and bills - I think my husband may be gambling again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - hello, i cant remember if i've asked this question before but i need some advice. I've been married for 6 months and have a 18month old baby boy. Since around September last year we have had money issues, to the point where we cant afford food or ...

Not in the mood for sex after childbirth. What am I going to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - i've been with my husband for alittle over 3 years. we have a 19 month old boy and after he was born my sex drive has gone from waking him up to make love to pushing him off me when he wants to. what am i going to do?...

Can wife's medication cause her sex drive to increase?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

20 June 2011 (M) - hi my wife has been on anti depresent medication since christmas. they have made here feel good however during the time she was on them her sexual behavour changed and she just loved it. not that i an complaining as it was me who cuased her to be...

I want our group of friends to know about my husband's affair with another one of our friends!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - Ugh. I posted a question April 19 regarding my husband's old secret that has destroyed a friendship and marraige both. In a nutshell, he cheated on me with a mutual friend, lied about it for years, and now thinks I should get over it and still be ...

Not in love with wife, but lover says she wants to have child with her boyfriend, and no longer wants sex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

19 June 2011 (M) - I am in quite a complicated relationship, let me explain: 1. I am a married man, no kids 2. In a relationship with a woman 7 years older to me who is living with another man. 3. We work toghether, earlier in the same team now in different teams...

Depressed wife left me and went to her mother's. How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (M) - dear cupid hope u can help my wife has been suffering with depression for the last 18 months.since this first began i have tried everything i could to make her better sadly my lack of knowledge of the illness worked against me.i have felt that the...

My husband shows no love towards me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - Hello all, my husband have been treating me very bad he has hitted me a few times and called me names that is too awfull to mention. The thing is im not sure if i feel the same about him anymore, he treats me different towards other women. He will ...

My mother in law has more say in my marriage than I do, and he hits me@

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - I really need some atwise. my mother inlaw has a say basicly about everything in my marriage. Well i wanted to do something for fathersday because my husband is a new daddy. I told her we are going to be at at home and im preparing a suprise for him ...

My husband touches other women's butts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - is it normal for my husband to touch another girls bum...

I want to do it but he never does

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband forever it seems, and while we get along for the most part, it's not always been great... but we Have always enjoyed having sex. Gradually, over the course of the last couple of years, our sex life has slowed down ...

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty ...