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writes:I have been married to my husband forever it seems, and while we get along for the most part, it's not always been great... but we Have always enjoyed having sex. Gradually, over the course of the last couple of years, our sex life has slowed down to the point where sex is now virtually non-existent. I have tried everything, and he tells me he just doesn't have the urge. That really hurts my feelings because I still desire him as much as I ever did and have never turned him down. I am getting afraid to approach him any more for fear of again being rejected. The worst part of it is that I really enjoy having sex. I can hardly watch two people kiss any more without getting all hot and in the mood. I pleasure myself out of necessity I guess but I really would rather be doing the real deal with my man. I don't really think an affair is the answer... but I do daydream of it often. The bottom line is I have no clue what else I can do to to try to get him interested in me again, and I am getting resentful about it and am starting to feel like I would be justified in cheating. He actually said..."just don't let me find out about it" So what is that? Is he giving me the go ahead or what? I seriously think I am getting obsessed about it and I truly just need to get laid. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): If this neglect continues you just may take the affair route and he will have no one to blame but himself. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 June 2011):
 has he been to the doctor for a medical work up? he could be hormonally imbalanced..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): don't go down the affair route. That will cause so many more problems.
Sit your husband down, explain to him how it is making you feel. Perhaps you could come to some sort of compromise?
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