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writes: when we first got together i just knew he was my husband sex was never an issue but everything changed when we moved n together he was super controlling we argued everyday we only had sex once a month n if i wanted more sex he would say i was addicted n he never really cared for my breast one day I accused him of cheating he swore he never cheated with a grl i asked with a man he said no i asked was he gay he got angry but said no couldn't argue no longer told him to leave n he never tried to come back Reply to this Question
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reader, Ronnie70  +, writes (27 June 2011):
 He's just a control freak and you're better off - and a lot safer - having nothing to do with him. If you didn't get rid of him you'de end up being his slave. You made a wise move getting rid.
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reader, found89 +, writes (26 June 2011):
found89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanx for the advice but i really couldnt go into detail cause it was only so much i could write but i told him to leave cause every thing i did had to be perfect and he was to controlling i couldnt go no were, i couldnt work,i couldnt open the door for my own family if they wanted to visit with out him there are i was having sex with them i had to stay n the restroom after showerin n i like to change in my room it was just us to but he went with his dude friend when he pleased couldnt take it any more
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reader, Ronnie70 +, writes (26 June 2011):
You simply weren't compatible. You told him to leave. He did. He didn't try to come back. Why would he want to after being told to leave? Move on.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (26 June 2011):
 HI
It's possible he suffers with depression, or maybe he has been riddiculed before about his sex life or size of his manhood? but the biggest mistake you made was accussing him of being gay just because he was just not that into sex. You seemed very eager to get rid of him, rather than asking what was wrong, maybe deep down he was not the man for you, or maybe the attraction wasn't really there from the start for both of you. Either way if you do want him back, then you will really need to apologise for your behaviour on how you treated the subject of the matter, and maybe he will forgive you and start again, but you need to tell him that a healthy sex life plays a big part of any relationship. So for it to work you will both have to work on what turns you both on.
Hope this has helped. xx
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