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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Why should I live my life virtually alone while my husband spends most of his spare time with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) - I have been married to my husband for 2 1/2 years. We have a 6 yr old, a 2 yr old, and a 2 month old baby. I am an at home mom also trying to help out with the business my husband just started. I have been having a problem lately with my husband ...

My wife has changed recently, do you think I have lost her, I love her, what do I do now?p

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - my wife and i met about 9 years ago. we were both getting out of serious relationships at the time. we are in our late twenties now. for some reason i didn't feel in love with her until 7 years after we were together. that is when we got married ...

Am I getting upset for no reason or should I confront him and ask him about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if I am overreacting. My husband left his email program up and so I was reading one of the emails and it was from an old girlfriend. She was telling him about her marriage and how things weren't so good for her right now and ...

My husband wants to make a sex tape!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) - My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe ...

My husband of 8 years cheated before we got married and NOW he tells me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My husband of 8 years just told me about having sex with another girl about 2 years before we got married. I was immediately tooken back when he told me this last night. I mean, why now? Why didn't he tell me then? I tell you why, because I would've ...

My wife is cheating, but doesn't want to leave me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Thing between my wife and me have not been right for a while. She has been chatting a lot to other men online. A while back I found out that she was sending naked pictures to these men. I thought she stopped but recently she started talking to an ...

My wife is cheating to relieve her depression

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) - my wife is cheating on me, she's been very depressed lately over losing her daughter's custody. suddenly she changed and i didn't know how, she became more active and happy, just a week ago my wife's best friend told me that my wife's having a ...

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all ...

I want to end this two year affair... NOW!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...

My wife can't get over my past...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...

Is it wrong for me to masturbate the nights he works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hello my husband works 4 nights a week we are in our early forties we have lots of sex no need for me to want more ,but at night time is when im horniest even though he pleases me is it wrong for me to masturbate on the nights he works?...

These rides to work are really pissing me off!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...

After my divorce, how can I keep close bonds with my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - My wife of 14 years left me for another man, the divorce was final 8/28/08. She left on 5/2/07 and took our 12 year old son, as I expected. Since then my relationship with my son has deteriorated to the point that we haven't talked in over two ...

I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I want to leave my husband! I can't live like this any more and I told him today. He didn't really care that I was leaving but said I'm not taking the kids they're both 6. I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give ...

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

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29 October 2008 (F) - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. ...

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

Has the age gap finally caught up with us? I'm so discontent!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Where do i start????...ok so im 31 and my partner of 15 years is 41, we have 2 children, and here is the BUT i dont really know if I'm happy any more, we separated about 2 years ago for a year, then got back together when we got back together things ...

I have some concerns about my husband's online activities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I have some concerns about my husband's online activities from before we got married and up to now. When we were first getting together, he lived in another state because he was stationed there with the Air Force. So I moved there to be with ...

I want to save my marriage so how can I make him understand that I love only him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Around a year ago I finally married my first love of six years. We have started dating very young, well at least I was (I was 14) and he was a few years older then me. Through out these years, I’ve went through so much drama its crazy. I am a Ch...

I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she ...

My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant ...

Is this just a normal shift on our schedules or is he pulling away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I was married for nearly 10 years. My husband always seemed distant and I began to find outside interests, hobbies and friends so I could avoid spending time with my spouse. After the divorce, I met an interesting man. At the beginning of our ...

I suspect my husband is having an affair with his old girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (?) - hi think my husband is having an affair with his old girl friend who he has a son with hes 21yrs,I did ask him and he said no way she phoned him to ask about advise on buying a house and he only phoned her 5or 6 times so he said, i found his phone ...

Unhappy in my marriage: I feel I shouldn't give in to sex if he disrespectful, even abusive in return. Any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 3 years, before that we dated for 4. I was raised in a good CHristian home and in a good church and I was always taught about the importance of abstinence and saving yourself for marriage. About 2 or 3 years ...

My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn, his mother has treated me very badly in the past. We are living separately now. When I yelled at him today for his mother treating me badly he said am eating his head. He watches porn ...

What is up with his touching other women yet not touching me in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 22 years. Recently, in the last two years, he has been being a little too friendly to women when we are out in public. He is not a touchy kind of guy and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are both 58. ...

I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal for a long time. It really upset me because the things he was saying to her were too deep for me. I confronted him and he says everyone...

My wife and I don't have sex at all after marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 32 and my wife is 34. We got married 8 years ago. We knew each other only for 1 year before we got married. Our sex life is nonexistent and stopped soon after we got married. The Story: Our relationship started as many others - we met ...

I'm pregnant and have noticed my husband still keeps in contact with ex girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I noticed on the computer and on the phone that my husband is still keeping in contact with some of his ex-friends this topic always starts bad emotions between us plus I'm pregnant, should I just let it go and start talking to some of my ...

I want to leave my husband but I can't bring myself to do it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 3 kids. I want to leave him but I can't bring myself to do it. We constantly fight, he curses me and even calls our kids names, I hate him for how he acts. I've asked him to go to counseling ...

Why don't people realise how wrong and illusive is their supposed sudden love for a past sweetheart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - What's with that epidemic, of ''hooking up with old lover"" on computer. Why people can't see, how wrong is that? It's a trap, you feel unhappy in your marriage, so you look up, your high-school sweet-heart on line, and you think you are in love ...

Been having sex with my boss for over a year! Confused about how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boss and i having been just having sex for over a year but i think he would like more if we both were not married, first he calls me all the time and wants me around him all the time and is trying to inpress my kids somewhat but i'm confused ...

Should I make my own porn video for my husband and give it to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - been with my hubby for 25 years, we were high school sweethearts. Recently I've been thinking about sleeping with my friend, who is a female, and is married herself for about the same time. I've allways wondered what it would be like to sleep wi...

I'm a married man, and I prefer masturbation to intercourse. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I am having some problems with my sex life. I am a 28 year old male and have been married for 5 years. My wife and I waited to have sex until after we were married. I was not a virgin and she was. After about 5 years of marriage I am f...

My world is total devastation, caused by an affair!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My world came to a crashing an total devastating end at the end off July when I found out my wife of 25 years and my partner and soul mate as I seen it of 27 years finally admitted that she was and had been having an affair with her teacher ...

I don't know if my wife and I will ever have sexual relations again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Well,Cupid, I doubt that even your strongest arrow can solve this problem. Oh. I hear the reply. "Whatever could be wrong?" It's kind of straight forward. The usual, man meets woman, woman and man marry, woman all the sudden doesn't want to ...

Why do I feel something for this guy even though I have a loving husband now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 21 and married, got married Dec of '07. I love my husband very much. When we were dating it wasn't easy for us... no one wanted to see us together. Well like I said I love my husband very much but I want to know why I feel like I do. For ab...

We've only been married 3 months and he's been talking to his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I are married for 3 months... one day I went through the phone and I saw his email was open and I saw he was still keeping in touch with an ex of his. I confronted him he said they are only friends and I don’t have nothing to worry ...

Am I pushing him too hard to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and i complain to him allthe time'when we going to get married' and he complains that he wants to give me the perfect wedding so he wants to basically wait till we have money well we are moving ...

How do you get rid of a broken heart?

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27 October 2008 (F) - How do you get rid of a broken heart when it’s been broken by 2 men at the same time? I’ve been married 25 yrs. and it’s been a rocky marriage. My husband is living in another state managing our 48 unit apt. complex which has caused a lot of ...

My new hubby is proven to be such a disappointment!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My new hubby is proving to be such a disappointment. When we first met he was sexy and driven. He was flirty and dirty. He had boundless energy and thrilled me with his crazy plans and naughty antics. One night he drove me to a top hotel and p...

Pregnant by another man and my husband wants me to get rid of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I don't know where else to turn, I feel so sad an alone at the moment. I was in a relationship with two men, one of which was my husband, and yes they knew about each other as we lived all in the same house. I found out I was pregnant b...

How do I tell my wife about the tape I found in her drawer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I need some strong words of support, and a little advice about what to do. I'm asking for advice and a vote on which option I should do. My wife and I are married for a few years, and I know about her past, not much of a past but a few boyfriends...

I need to find myself first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Here is a little background I have been married for 12 years year, have two children 5 and 12.. Have not been happy for sometime, husband is extremely verbally abusive to me and the kids and has basically ruined my self confidence. I h...

Why is he behaving so strangely? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for 9 months. We are both christians and I know he fears God and so Do I. I am 35 and he is 51. I understand that things will be a little different as far as sex drive. I had issues when it started to dwindle and he did not ...

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

How can I deal with this hurt and pain and learn to trust my husband again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My husband of 5 years and I have had a rocky marraige. Not only does he suffer from Bipolar mood disorder, but he also has a drinking problem. A few days ago, I got home from work to be told by my husband that he needed a break and was going out. ...

Should I believe him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he ...

What do you make out of this, is it selfishness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My husband left the house 5 months ago, stating "you don't care about me and I don't care about you" you didn't make me feel loved too much has gone on in the past, and he feels can't get past that. During this time we have gotten to gather many ...