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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Both married to other people but we have been having these strong feelings for one another! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - hi i have been married for over 25 years and have always loved my wife. recently i have met a married woman who we both get on very well. nothing has occoured yet but we have both spoke about our feelings for each other.but both agreed we have e...

Why did he have this affair? What was he thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - My husband had an affair after meeting someone on the Plentyoffish dating services, well it has been quite the ordeal trying to forgive him, I never thought I would be in this situation, my marriage I thought was wonderful, he was always there for ...

My husband wants me to have sex with another man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - i need an opinion. i've been married to my husband for 13 years, my husband can't stop thinking about me having sex with another man. we agreed to try swinging a few times even though i was back and forth about it i tried it for him, after ...

I recently found out my cheated on my 10 years ago. My love for her has now completely gone.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I found out recently that 10 years ago, my now wife had a drunken one night fling with a co-worker. She was drinking a lot and for some crazy reason thought that I wasn't in love with her any more. She did the classic 'after it happened, I realized ...

How would you interpret his comment in your point of view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I went to dinner at somebody's house where there was wine. We met a new person (older man) who we had to walk with on the way. My husband didn’t like his company and I didn’t mind his company. After he left on his way and we on ours ...

Is he just a friend or can he be more? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Sorry - this is a long one but I need a hepful opinion really badly! I met a man (I'll call him 'L') nearly 3 years ago and we've gradually become firm friends; he works in offices that I occasionally visit as part of my job (so we don't work ...

I want my husband to compromise more with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am 32 years old and my husband is 45. I find that one he acts like he doesn't remember important conversations unless it has something to do with something he likes. He only satisfies me 50% of the time when we're in bed. He always says things ...

Husband on the 'down low'!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Apologies if this is long; but it's really worrying me and I need to get it out in the open. I'm 33 and my husband's 36. We have two sons, one aged 12 and the other who's 14. I live down the road from my best friend, and my children are bes...

I need married men's advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the ...

I had a one night stand while we were on a break, I told him after we got married and he is now furious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I had a one night-stand while my boyfriend and I were on a break. That continued on to a relationship that lasted a few months. I married my boyfriend after 3 years. I told him about the relationship but not one night-stand. We have now been married ...

Any ideas on what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and we've been talking about getting married next fall for almost 6 months. We've set a date, started looking at venues etc... We are great together, and we've started looking at houses... He ...

Why don't my feelings matter to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Im having a very hard time trying to earn respect or recieve respect from my husband. We are young and we have been married for three years, and i love him,and respect him...but he never shows me respect! If we get into an argument he will yell at ...

I wish to have a child with my hubby before it's too late but he won't cooperate...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi me and my hubby are both 39.We have children from past relationships but i really want one with him before its to late.I did a home ovulation test and its fine and ive been to the doc for blood test, that was fine too.My hubbys home test came ...

My wife doesn't want to have sex and dismisses all my suggestions!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My wife has never been greatly interested in sex. Now, after 13 years of marriage and her suffering a bout of depression and flirting with a work colleague, she tells me she is sexually frustrated - doesn't want to have sex with me - but wants to ...

Should I leave before my husband does to be the one who has more options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Í' m very panicked now. My husband is going though mid -life crises, after 20 and more year marriage. Does it sound very typical? I'm sure it is. He does not have sexual desire,or any other affection, or excitement toward me..Is it any min now ...

Should I get a divorce or stick it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have been considering a divorce for some time (years). My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and he has a son from a previous "one night stand" that we see often because of me. He lives on the other side of the country, but ...

Will he leave his wife after he gets his finances in order? What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Help!!I am a 40 year old female. I looked up a old love we were 18 we lived together briefly. his parents as well as mine did not like the relationship and eventually he left. i looked him up a few months ago i have never stopped loving him all ...

My wife and my father do not get along! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My wife and father don't get along. Both of them are stuborn and I can't take it anymore. My father has a lot of issues. There is no love in his marriage, he doesn't have any friends, he feels like people don't acknowledge him for the person he is...