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female
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*ina newman
writes:hello my husband works 4 nights a week we are in our early forties we have lots of sex no need for me to want more ,but at night time is when im horniest even though he pleases me is it wrong for me to masturbate on the nights he works? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Nothing wrong with it!! Have a little solo lady time. Light some candles, play some Al Green and get down. Afterwards, eat some ice cream and watch Sex & the City reruns.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): It is normal, good and healthy. Don't feel bad or guilty, just relax and enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Of course not! A bit of solo fun never hurt anyone. Everyone does it at some time in their life.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (30 October 2008):
 I wouldn't call it "wrong" - but only if it causes a problem in your sex life. Since you say that it doesn't - then it's probably not an issue.
However, you can probably use this time to still involve your husband. If possible, have your husband call you during one of his breaks. Without telling him before hand what you are going to do, begin telling him a play by play of what you are doing (it's probably a good idea to be REALLY charged up before he calls just in case he can't talk long). Using words, give him a good visual of what you are doing to yourself - telling him how it feels and all that. Hopefully during this conversation, you will have an orgasm while you are on the phone.
This will help to involve your husband (if he's into phone sex) so that you aren't feeling like you're doing something without your husband. It also helps to keep your relationship fresh by adding something new (if you haven't done this before - and you are both willing).
But as long as you are having sex when he is home, then everything should be fine.
Hope this helps.
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