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*arbieanne32
writes:I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a minute, i noticed that it had a "pin lock" code, therefore i couldnt see ANY numbers, texts etc... he says he doesnt even know what it is. its a pre-paid phone, so there's no information i can get about it. like i said, he hides it ALL the time and i haven't found his secret hiding spot yet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): i would say yes he is i have been in your situation but i did not find out for a long time if he nothing to hide he would show you mine had two phones and he was using it to text another woman sorry i no it is horrible to hear good luck
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (30 October 2008):
Cheating or selling drugs.. seriously that's the only two reasons he'd have another phone short of being a secret agent. And he doesn't sound Bond smooth.
If I where you I would buy my own cell phone(even if you have one) and keep it secret from him (but make sure he sees it) see if he loses the plot and you know what they say suspicion haunts the guilty mind.
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reader, barbieanne32 +, writes (30 October 2008):
barbieanne32 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all the advice! i've been feeling like i was really paraniod, and accusing him without justification. at 1st i thought he was keeping it from me just to "drive me crazy" cause he knows that i've always been the jealous type.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (30 October 2008):
 There can be a very effective way to find out. Ask this mans mother if she actually did give him a phone. If she says yes, then ask her why she gave it to him and what the reasons for having the phone is for.
If she says no tell her what you have just wrote so that you both can confront her son about this phone and in that moment both demand to know why he lied and what is on it.
GoodLuck
HonningKanin
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Sorry to say, but that is definitely a sign of a cheater. There is no other reason for him to have a secret cell phone. If he wasn't hiding anything, he wouldn't be hiding the phone or having a lock code for it. Like mashay said, if he didn't know what the code was, why would he have the phone anyways? It just doesn't make sense. He should definitely come clean and quit lying to you about this. You definitely are getting played.
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reader, barbieanne32 +, writes (30 October 2008):
barbieanne32 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the help! i dont want to lose him, but i cant just sit by while he does "whatever". about 2 months ago, he told me that he "wasn't IN love with me" like he used to be. i've tried everything to make him happy so he would not leave, but now i'm starting to feel like a big fool! thats what really hurts! he says the phones "no big dea" and then he says "cant i have something of my own without you always knowing about it?" i was holding it one time and he wouln not leave my side, and he kept making excuses about having to call differet people so that i would hand him the phone back! i told him that i'm not stupid and just beacuse he comes up with lame stories does not mean that i believe them. i'm so confused.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Wow - massively sketchy situation you have. The whole "my Mom gave it to me" excuse is the most bogus thing I've ever heard. His whole clueless act is ridiculous. If he's hiding it and has it all locked up from your prying eyes, he has something to hide. This guy is a CHEATER.
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reader, mashay +, writes (30 October 2008):
girl i was married for 10 years and my husband cheated on me twice and i caught him both times!! trust me and trust yourself if he has that phone and want let you read anything on it then he has something to hide !! and think about it if he didnt have the lock code then why does he need the phone cause he wouldnt be able to use it!!! trust your heart !!!
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