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writes: my wife is cheating on me, she's been very depressed lately over losing her daughter's custody. suddenly she changed and i didn't know how, she became more active and happy, just a week ago my wife's best friend told me that my wife's having a relationship with a guy she met at a bar, i checked and she was right but my wife denied the whole thing.i don't know what to do, i don't want her to cheat on me yet i don't want to pressure her and push her to depression again. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): Your wife is cheating because, she is a CHEATER. I have known plenty of people to go through horrific ordeals, yet they don't cheat. She is using that as an excuse and you are buying into it. And only God knows why she is losing custody of her daughter. Some of you men kill me at times---you fall for the most unfaithful women on the planet, yet treat the decent ones like crap. I can't believe that YOU believe in that depression make up hell of a story!!! Your gf is a liar and a cheater and she will cheat again regardless of what you do for her. Stop being a fool and get a backbone and realize what the holy hell is going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): relieve her depression... she may feel insecure. loosing your children, regardless to how, is hurtful.
dress yourself up and make yourself more attractive. Seriously, sometimes we too comfortable in our own skin and forget about what made us attractive to our spouses in the beginning. Date your wife. Invite her for dinner, meet up somewhere and have sex. sex in the bed, at night, right before bed time, with the lights off, eyes closed, and tired gets boring...it's tired sex.... have sex when you come home from work then get up and go about your daily routines.
bring the excitement back into the marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Depression once again been used as an excuse...your wife is cheating on you because she wants too! sorryLook After you or you will be the truly depressed one.
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