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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I'm inexperienced about relationships that involves divorce. Any advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has been through a divorce before he met me. He also had a daughter with his ex-wife. This fail relationship hurted him very much, which I feel changed his view on marriage and child. I was thinking about it, and started to get worry if...

I love another married man..do you think it's time I sorted this all out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - i am married and like my husband but not in love with him. i am in love with another who is also married but not in love with his wife but stays for his teenage boys we could carry on as we are for many more years, but i think it is time that we ...

My husband is neglecting our marriage and family - when should I give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - Hello all- Searching for input. Husband of 10 years has become increasingly distant from myself and children. I am one of those "married single parents". He has always had his own thing going on. Recently took a demanding job with a long commute....

We are having marriage problems over my husband's drinking binges...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a question I need a lot of help on. I'm in a 3 year marriage thats been somewhat rocky.theres been lots of fighting,but we love eachother very much and we have a son but theres always been this problem my husband once in ...

My husband is no longer understanding towards my issues with sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have experienced a lot in that amount of time. When I was 16 years old, i was sexually assaulted and my views regarding sex changed dramitically. My husband is the first person I had sex with ...

Convinced my Dad is cheating on my Mum, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I am a teenager living at home with my Mum and Dad who have been married for 20 years. I recently found some texts on my Dads mobile and I am now convinced he is having an affair. Please help me because I can't stand the thought of my family been ...

Been married a few months and run out of thinsg to say!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - I have nothing to say to my wife. We have only been married for a few months, and I am scared. We just moved because of her job, and we have no one to speak to other than each other. I am not working so I can't even tell her about my day. What can I ...

Still attracted to my marriage counselor! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - I posted a question a couple of weeks ago about how I was very attracted to my Relate counsellor. One therapist suggested I tell him about my attraction, but this is difficult as both my partner and I see him together and I'm trying to suggest a ...

Did my wife really stop in the middle of the act because she felt bad, or did she cheat ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - did she cheat on me or not ?? me and my wife have been living together for 12 years, and have we have 2 kids. Our realationship has had its ups and downs over the years, but somehow we have made it work. About 6 months ago we had a huge fight,and...

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

I am married and my online friend has fallen in love with me. Am I cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i am a 29-year-old married female having a 1-year-old child. A month back i made friends with a 20-year-old male on the internet and have been in constant touch with each other ever since online and over the phone. He claims to have fallen in love ...

Why does my husband put me down when I try to have sex with him? Is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6629 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and, I am lucky if i have sex with him once a week. The times that we do have sex is when I come on to him and, half of the time he says he don't fell good or he's in a bad mood. I don't know ...

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...

Husband is registered on various online dating agencies. Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 2 years. I know I shouldnt but I read his e-mails, I have found out that he has registered for various online dating agencies and is chatting to several different women! Should I confront him?...

Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my ...

Married for 30 years, I find out he has had an affair with a girl 20 years younger.. And everyone knows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My husband of 30 years has just had an affair! He moved out 6 months ago, saying the relationship was not working, and then I found out he was seeing a woman 20 years younger, is living with her, and has been on holiday with her. Everyone we know ...

My husband spends less and less time at home with me and my son. How can I get our life back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am married for last 9 years and has a kid(aged 8). I am a busy executive(works close to 12 hrs @ times) and heads home staright after work.For past 1 month, I am seeing my hubby spending very less time at home, with me and my son. He loves to...

How can I help her trust me and get over her controlling ways??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I am a formerly gay male who was married to a woman 4 years ago. I was tired of living in a rathole apartment and tired of living alone so I thought marriage would be the best thing. Also, I lived in a very homophobic part of the bible-belt, being ...

I am in a sexless, loveless marriage and would never cheat, but my married neighbour drives me wild. How can I control myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - Staying in a sexless, almost loveless marriage but peaceful coexistence. Staying together mainly for our child and both of us are great parents. I'm really attracted to a neighbour (he too is married) and watch him whenever he's out. I have never ...

Worried I will never find somebody else if I leave my husband. How can I stay with heim when the relationship is long over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I married a gentle caring sort of person but being an inter community marriage and his mother's overdrive at nastiness and control has come between us for a long time now. He is such a good person with the world but has taken all his resentment out ...

Finally! We've split up..so why do I feel so guilty? Any thoughts on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - My house has sold almost a year after I started sleeping seperate from my husband. I felt since the moment we married years ago that it was a mistake. I do have feelings for him, but not 'that' way, never could say 'I love you', never wanted or ...

Why does my boyfriend keep avoiding the subject of marriage? Should I find somebody else because I am not getting any younger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - i been with my bf for nearly 2 years now, he know exactly what i want. and that is to get married. i ask him one time and funny that he said he need a time. its sound hurt for me because he is supposed to be the one who ask me to marry him but its ...

I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied ...

I feel cheated as I am the only one trying to save my marriage--he doesn't want to try! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - When will things improve? Hi, i wrote a question a couple of weeks ago regarding the breakdown of my marriage, and how my husband of 7 years told me he does not love me enough to have a family with me even though we had discussed and agreed to st...

Married 26 years, he looks at porn all the while, I think he also cheated, I strayed as I was so unhappy, this is all a mess please help someone!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Help anyone. I've been married for 26 yrs now, but I am very unhappy. I was married by the age of 19 and at 20 had my first son. I only knew my husband for a short time, for which I only knew him 6 months and was married within that time. Anywa...

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...

My husband told me that he is bisexual and now wants to explore some of his fantasies together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I’ve been searching the web for advice about having a kinky partner, and happened upon several requests for advice for partners that are chatting. Well, I have no advice, just a similar story – and now a request for advice. My husband and I ha...

Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf and I don't get on very well with our families, or eachothers' families. We want to get married but we don't want all the hassle as we know that inviting them will cause tension. Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?...

Its all about her and what she wants, but I cant end it or I will look silly to others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - I am trapped in the marriage that I never ever thought will turn out to be like this (just married 6 months). Basically the core of the problem are many, among them is that she is so obsessive about money, she sees everything as money, lives and...

My husband isnt happy that im pregnant as he said it will spoil long haul holidays! Will he come around as I really want this baby!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have found out I am pregnant. I am happy, just turned 39 and believed infertile. Suffer from PCOS, overweight and smoke, high blood pressure, so not alot going for me. Found out this weekend and am over the moon. But my partner of 2 years is ...

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man ...

He is getting divorced and seems less happier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i live with a man who is getting divorced now and ever since we have moved in together he seems less happier to see me each day....

I want to reconnect to my Christian roots - my wife doesn't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I'd like to reconnect to my Christian roots, but my wife won't hear of it. When we met neither one of us were church-goers. Over time (7 years) I've had contact with several churches that I feel represent the message I'd like to hear (acceptance, ...

How can I form a better relationship with my wife ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I've been married for 40 years, I don't love my wife and I thinks she knows that. Recently friends of ours have split up, I am absolutely obsessed with the woman in this split and I can't help thinking of her all of the time. Could you suggest ways ...

My wife spends alot of money on her parents, at the cost of our family, I dont feel this is right, Any advice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I'm married and blessed with a son, my problem is that me and my wife cannot seems to agree on the fiancial support to give to her parents. I feel that she spends a lot of money on her parents at the cost of our family but her position is that her ...

He promised he would stop his porn viewing, its started again and now he lies, what can I do to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Do I really know my husband? He promised to stop viewing fat porn but I've found even more on his PC. I've viewed other similar posts and I understand that men and women view sex and arousal differently but this is now the third time I find myse...

I dont love my husband, but have a lover, he wants me to move near him, but wont leave his wife!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - Im married with 3 children but im not very happy as i dont love my husband anymore.I have a lover who i have been with for a number of years,the thing is he has a partner who is 25 years older then him but its not a sexual relationship just ...

My husband of 12 years said he didnt love me and we seperated, could it be he was depressed!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - is there anyone out there that has been through or currently going through what i am at the moment cause i could really do with different peoples opinions on this one, i did put something on here a few days ago but did not really explain very well, ...

My husband looks very old and I'm ashamed to be seen in public with him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - My husband is 43 but he looks atleast 55 - greying, balding and generally cares a damn. I'm 38 but look much younger (as per others) and often nowadays people mistake him for my father. Perhaps sounds really immature but I feel really ashamed to be ...

How do i cope with a long distance marriage? I don't feel missed very much. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - How do i cope with a longdistance marriage? Well ive only been married for about a year 1/2 now and we have a 18months daugther. The problems i have is this is the first time my whole family have been separated and its affecting my marriage with...

We opened up one night about our sexual pasts, I now dont feel sexual towards her!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - My wife's sexual past is hurting us both. My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. I've always been reluctant to discuss our sexual pasts, largely because I was "afraid to know." Well, she breeched the subject one night b/c she ...

My husband is a voyeur on the internet..he likes viewing women. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My husband is a voyeur on the internet watching women etc. I caught him viewing one evening and he got very upset. And denied he was viewing women. He does not make me feel loved or attractive and seems to be only getting pleasure from this. W...

I would love to make love to my wife more often, but shes always has an excuse what can I do!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - This is tearing me to pieces! I love my wife. I would love to make love to her maybe 2 or 3 times a week. We are married 5 years with a 2 year old we have been together for 10 years. Unfortunately she is never in the mood. She is into porn so that ...

Is my wife's friendship crossing the line???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

14 September 2006 (M) - Is my wife's friendship crossing the line? My wife and I have been married for 7 years. She has a male friend and they have been friends since childhood. When he was in high school he had several girlfriends and was heterosexual then. During co...

I found on my Dad's mobile phone some texts from another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

13 September 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm a teenage girl (don't want to reveal my age) and live at home with both my parents. We have always been a really close family and they have been married for nearly 20years. However, I recently found on my Dad's mobile phone some texts ...

It shocks me that he is no longer in love with his ex-wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

13 September 2006 (F) - How long does one need to recover from a heart-break relationship? Will it be different between guys and girls? My situations is this. My boyfriend was divorced 1 yr and 3 months before we met. We've been together for 1 year as of now. He was marr...

Do I go to Russia to be with my gf or stay in America..close to my children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - I am 31 years old, married for 8 years with 2 children ages 3 and 1. I am in deeply in love with another woman, a brilliant, lovely, sweet woman from Russia living in America named "Elena". I have confessed all to her. She still wants to be with ...

Seperated and she is partying and its painful to think what she is doing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been seperated (not legally) for about three months. The problems that caused this are long standing issues or responsibility and emotional distance. I am currently in counseling but she has not started yet. We have not made a ...

I'm in love with a married woman...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

12 September 2006 (M) - Hi every one, I have read a ton of posts on here looking for advice but I still need help. I am 22 years old and have fallen in love with a married woman. We got to know each other very well as friends for 2 and half years. This past summer we kisse...