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writes: My bf and I don't get on very well with our families, or eachothers' families. We want to get married but we don't want all the hassle as we know that inviting them will cause tension. Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 A wedding isn't about what your family wants its about what you and your parter want, try talking to your families telling them how you feel and that if this doesn't resolve itself and soon you will have a wedding just you and your partner as you want your special day to be just that special and not have your memories filled with hassle and tension as the day is about you and your partner and not them and make it clear to them that they should respect you both in wanting this day to be special and not want anything to ruin it for you both, see what they come back with but when it comes down to it as I said your day not theirs and you deserve the day you have dreamed of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2006): you and your bf love each other. if both side agreed to get marriage in secret way' just to avoid problems from both side of families then why not do what you think is good for you both'' dont bother your self from others.
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