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writes: i am married and like my husband but not in love with him. i am in love with another who is also married but not in love with his wife but stays for his teenage boys we could carry on as we are for many more years, but i think it is time that we sorted it out once and for all even if it hurts me
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reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):
I think you know what you want to do as from what you posted you seem so sure whats next.
Go for it! Have the talk with your married man and see where this thing with you both can go and where it is going, just don't be fooled into carrying on as a mistress if you really want to be more than that as this talk should be the make or break of your relationship together and him having teenage boys is not really a good enough reason to stay with someone he doesn't love as he can still have a relationship with them without having to be married to their Mum.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (29 September 2006):
I don't really see a question in all that. It sounds like you're just venting. If you are having an affair with this man than yes you should it would be better off in the long run for everybody not just you. Also, I think that you are being selfish to think of yourself when there are a lot more people who will be hurt besides you in all this. I think you should have thought of that in the beginning.
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