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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

A friend dropped off the grid. I value privacy too highly to charge in uninvited.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - I am in my mid 30s and is a secret introvert. However, as the coach at a popular UK University Sports Society, I end up going out most nights. I have a rule, Sundays are mine. Mine alone. Without it, I would be lost and be unable to cope with ...

How do I help my friend who has been drinking again and has started making unwanted sexual advances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (?) - Hello. I would appreciate advice on how to help my friend. I am a 26 year old female, and my friend is quite a bit older than me. He lives across the road from me, and I know he has struggled with alcohol issues in the past. He used to drink a ...

Will he wait for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (?) - I really like this guy at work, I am on a contract that ends in the next 8 months but the work policy does not allow employees to form relationships as it creates conflict of interests. We flirt a lot and he responds very well, I have a feeling he ...

Where do I stand with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Hi all I am going to try and cut to the chase here, I am confused about where I stand with this guy I met. Initially, the guy who I shall name L, approached me 1st in a bar when me and my friend were sat alone in the corner. My friend who is as in...

Am I being unreasonable in expecting my boyfriend to spend less time with his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 28 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person I have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of ...

What should I make of her very friendly actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - A female who I've hung out with a few times before, a few days ago grabbed and pulled my head into her breasts on a few separate occasions 10-15 mins apart during a sporting event. We cheered for different teams, each time her team scored, she would ...

How can I contact again my ex-friend and crush and should I? I regret losing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - It's a bit long but that's because i'm gonna try to explain things well so that hopefully you can answer accuraletly... if you could give me your opinion on it i'd be VERY grateful ! So here is the story This guy got interested in me right a...

I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends. We have opposite schedules at the moment for the most part, so she thinks I have all this free time when she isn't around when I really don't. In fact it makes...

Feeling confused and upset. Was the unsuccessful sex, with my housemate and friend, his fault, my fault, the alcohol, or none of that, and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - I'm 19 years old, my housemate (male) is the same age. I've never really been attracted to him really, he's always been "just a friend" Anyhow, we got REALLY drunk a few nights ago and ended up chatting until gone 4am when we went to his room. He...

Should I even bother trying to be friends with this guy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Helloo. c8 So, turns out I was kinda thrown into a situation. This male once-friend of mine (let's call him Tim) asked me to the dance, and I said no, because I had a boyfriend. I hadn't told him beforehand that I did, because I don't really car...

What advice should I give my friend about dating/sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (M) - Here goes nothing. I have a friend of my mine who is a girl that disclosed some stuff to me. We are close friends. Basically she "dated" this guy for about 3 weeks. I put in quotes because until the 3rd week - they really didn't go on full blown ...

How to gracefully deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend's best female friend. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and known him for two years. He met her about a year before he met me. They lived in the same college hall the year before he met me, ...

How do I go on being NOT the so-nice understanding friend victim into the real me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - This is probably the weirdest most disghusting querry you'll ever read, but I'm afraid I need an insight on this one and how to deal with this tricky situation to say the least. I happen to have a friend who whenever she comes to my place, use...

What can I do so girls don't think I'm trying to steal their man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I find it difficult to make friends; as a female I find it even harder to be friends with women. If I consider a person my friend, they become like family to me. It seems that I can't be friends with women because they just end up stabbing me in the ...

In a relationship, but cannot get married co-worker out my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - My new co-worker (he's newly married, I might add) is adorable, funny, and charming. He is also a HUGE flirt. I find myself flirting back all the time, though I'm careful as to what I say. And even though I do flirt, at the end of the day, I only ...

My married male friend has admitted to being in love with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I am a 21 yr old female, student, and i have this male friend(30), an audiologist, who is married and has a kid.. I always saw him in this friend area...plus he is my best friend. He admitted of being Madly in love with me. It was a ...

Could renting together ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Just a quick question. Could living with a friend turn out to be a bad idea? My freshman year of college, I became pretty much best friends with my roommate. We have so much in common and had so much fun together, that we decided to be roommates our ...

How do I respond to this friend who seems to be upset that I've become a happy stay at home mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I recently moved overseas with my husband. We hav a baby and i amcrrently a stay at home mom. Iv known this friend since childhood .we went to the same school and she was also my bridesmaid. We were not best friends but we were good friends and she ...

Interest's gone sour! Should I ask her about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Hi folks, I had a similar question asked and answered here before but now I've got another querry on the same matter. A friend of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of her. At first, he wasn't up for it. When he saw me, he changed his mind. ...

She flaked on me then said she was sick. I haven't heard from her for 2 days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I am friends with this woman, we have been acquaintances for a while but really only got to know one another out of work the past 6 months or so. I'm the mean time she's gone through a break up with her ex and a lot of stuff - fair dos. ...

Am I attracted just because he's a nice guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Need help decoding mixed signals. There is a guy I'm interested in, and I know he's interested in my too (at least to an extent). He bought tickets to fly out to visit me. I know him from a long time ago-but we were only acquaintances. ...

What should I do about my ex and dating my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend (lets call him, George) of 8months and i currently broke up (14th Sept) and i went out the same night and spent time with one of my friends lets call him Pete. So Pete came and picked me up that night because i was upset and fe...

I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This...

I asked him out over facebook and don't know what to say if he calls and accepts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - So I asked a guy out the other day, unfortunately via facebook although it was really my only option. We were studying together, but our course ended- we were never friends, but were only friendly terms.. The problem is that he doesn't use f...

Her hugs lead to too much excitement! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - hi I am a guy and I have a girl best friend also I have feelings for her which she knows. now the problem I am having is she likes to hug a lot and for longer.. but every time I get hard on and I think she can feel... what should I do I like to ...

My "friend" wont talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (M) - I talked with my co worker a lot- during shifts, on breaks, and after shifts. It seemed like we were heading down friendship where I got his number and we started texting and stuff. After, it seemed like we were friends, he then suddenly quits the ...

Is there any chance a handsome guy could like a fat girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Aunts and Uncles So, this is gonna be a silly question but i hope you could answer anyway... Well, there is this guy i met that i really like. We are in the same group of friends (i am new to the group). The thing is i don't know if...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who likes him and it really bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or what. But my boyfriend has a girl best friend I'm not used to dating guys who have girl best friends infact I absolutely hate it! But he's been friends with her way before we started dating. They ...

What do his actions mean... friends or more than friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - A friend of mine, we'll call him Kyle, and I have been flirting quite a bit lately. I've known him for a number of years but have never acted like this with each other before. ever. Here is just one example. I want to know what his actions mean...

Don't want to lose my friends but I really like this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Basically, I have been friends with this boy for ages now, and I have started to have a massive crush on him. People say he would be good for me, but they never say if he has told anyone he has a crush on me too. I have got a bad reputati...

Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity? In a couple months, I will be seeing a man I haven't seen in almost 20 years. We have been chatting a lot online, and I'm pretty sure his visit will be a romantic one. I'm anxious because I'm n...

Asking a guy out over facebook- urgent help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I want to send a fb message to this guy who I was studying with (our course is over, as of last week). I was intending to make a move last week, in person, but never got the chance. So now I'm resorting to facebook even though I know he ...

My boyfriend believes I don't know how to act in social situations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now, and in the last few months he's been making comments that have made me think he is getting annoyed at the fact I am quite shy. I've always been that way - I was seriously shy as...

Do I text her or message her online? or is this weird, help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Was wanting to ask sthing... Ive been messageing a woman online for a few wks, shes only after fship, which is ok, i really need new friends. We seem to get along ok online, we decided to meet for coffee, public place, have seen each oth...

I like the friend of my ex but am afraid he might think I'm a psycho!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - dear cupid i have this crush on a guy had it for a while and thought it would go but now he is invading my dreams i really like him and i know one kiss from him would be a dream but here's the problem: he is friends with my ex who dumped me...

She asked him to cheat but I don't know what to think!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it ...

I don't want to be a third wheel but I don't want to tear their relationship apart either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (?) - So he rejected mean while back. He has a girlfriend now but their relationship is based on possessiveness. They have a strong rope around each others necks. He gives her so much but she doesnt do anything in return. Plus hes been having some ...

I ruined his birthday, but is it justified because his friendship with his ex was out of line.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - I'm talking to this guy and every now and then he goes and hangs out with his ex girlfriend. He knows that I don't like it at all because when hes with her I tell him not to speak to me. He tells me that hes sorry and hes trying to end things on a ...

Three of us are friends. She dumped him but now I like the guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - So to try and cut this story down. Last year my friend was dating a guy who I had been friends with for a few years previous. Anyway they broke up last year, she dumped him by text, which kind of put me in an awkward situation, I felt needed to have ...

URGENT adivce: is this too weird or should I just leave it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - So the story, I need your honest opinion- I know its long, but you need to understand the context if it all. We're in our mid 20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but we're friendly- we have done gro...

She rejected me because of the distance, but is still texting me, even after she is dating someone else, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - Hi, I was wondering what people make of this. About two years ago I met someone when out at a bar. There was immediate attraction, and I thought she was too good for me. Then I found out she felt exactly the same about me. So much so we went ...

Should I be worried about his girl best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - I'm a little aggravated with my boyfriends girl best friend. So my boyfriend and his girl best friend has been friends way before we started dating. They hangout or see each other every other day or every day. She has told him she likes him but he ...

Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous? I happen to see that once because it appeared on my wall and I've seen do that a few times and maybe more that I don't know about. Is ...

I've gotten involved with my friend and he loves me but I don't want a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I recently left a physically abusive relationship, so I am not dating until I get myself together. In the meantime I did have sex with one of my closest friends, it felt absolutely right and I came which my ex boyfriend rarely made me cum (I...

I'm interested in a guy, and he likes me, but he had a one night stand with my friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, would really appreciate some advice. Around three/four months ago my relationship of three and a half years started to break down. Its slowly been starting to die for the last year but I guess we didn't want to face it. Therefore when t...

Getting mixed vibes from this guy who ended things then reappeared. Any advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. Posted not so long ago as I had just started seeing a guy who had recently got out of a relationship. We met on a night out and from then he was texting me and we met up a few times. He would message every ...

My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made ...

Two guys. Which date to cancel? Considering the circumstances?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hey, I seem to have gotten myself caught up in a very odd situation. So, let me start off by saying that I had my boyfriend for 4 months, then we broke up, except it wasn't a clean break up. We decided to stay friends, although I only agreed to that ...

Has he lost interest? Why is he ignoring me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - hey, im so confussed :/ theres this guy that i've been dating, and everything was going good untill last weekend. hes a bouncer and i was on a night out and went to the club were he works and one of my friends wasn't allowed in so started shouting...

No strings relationship. When is it appropriate for me to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I started this relationship that is supposed to be no strings attached and we both seem to like each other more than we should. We talk everyday and he usually initiates the conversations. We have only met twice. I have heard nothing from him...