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female
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30-35,
*ovehelp2000
writes:Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it herself so she asked me if she could kiss my boyfriend so she could tell her boyfriend that she cheated on him. She knew it would kill me if she did. I felt so hurt that she asked my boyfriend to cheat on me. She then dumped her boyfriend by text. She still does have feelings for my boyfriend and im scared she will kiss him behind my back. I want to keep her as a friend but i feel awkward around her because she still has feelings for my boyfriend and its also causing me and my boyfriend to not want to kiss or hug around her .... i really dont know what to do
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reader, llifton  +, writes (23 September 2013):
 What?? Lol. That's the strangest situation ever.
Why are you still friends again? Lol.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (23 September 2013):
There's nothing you can do to prevent him from cheating except being the best girlfriend you can be.
Don't worry about her. If he kisses her then he's a crappy boyfriend just as she's a crappy friend.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 September 2013):
 First of, she is a crappy friend.
Second of all THIS is why you don't date a friend's ex.
Thirdly, people can't "steal" other people. If you BF wants to be with her over you, there is nothing you can do. If he wants to be with you, there is nothing SHE can do.
I would distance myself from her, she sounds pretty immature.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (23 September 2013):
 Karma is a b****.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): Sounds like you have a crap friendship. You get with her ex who she still has feelings for and she's losing the plot and asking you both to do crazy things.
You may aswell go all the way and get rid of her OP, I mean you already screwed her over not that she's a saint either of course.
OP your boyfriend is open season to her. She has every right to make drunken move on him if she likes seeing as you didn't give a crap about how she'd feel about you getting with her ex. She does sound like the type who will too.
Just get rid of her and be done with it. Neither of you care all that much about each others feelings, it's just going to get messy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): She isn't a friend. She shouldn't be asking you to kiss your bf but on the other hand you shouldn't be dating your friends ex boyfriends.
Get rid of her. IF she does kiss him he is also kissing her, so consider getting rid of both of them if needed.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (23 September 2013):
She's not a friend, she just wanted an excuse to kiss your boyfriend. I'd stop being her friend and ask your boyfriend out of respect for you to not have any sort of relationship with her either, friendly or not. You shouldn't have to alter your relationship because she's an immature weirdo.
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