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Should I apologize for my behavior?

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Question - (20 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy who i went to high school with had a little crush on me..but i never reciprocated the feelings becuase i just never saw him in that light...he's kept in touch with me, but nothing serious just hellos and goodbyes.

Well yesterday mornig I recieved a text from him that said.."hey"..and so i was like "hey whats up" you know the usual normal convo like how are you doing and stuff....so we were texting for about 15 minutes until I got a text message from him saying..well this is his "wife" and he is sleeping..so I guessed that she was talking to me the wole time so I asked her "why are you texting me?" becuase i didn't know he was with someone.(mind you people he really isn't marries it's just some girl he's talking to)..So she was like well i'm going to have his phone for the whole day..and i will tell him to call you later..sos i really didn't want to talk to him so i told her.."well that's okay"..and so she responded back..."F-u-c-k you"..and so told her that back..and then she told me that.."he said to stop texting his phone you w-h-o-re"..and I'm pissed because he's knows that it's not even like that between us,,and for him to do that made me mad. So I told her a couple of words..I did use profanity, but not to much..it's just that I wasn't going to let this girl talk to me in this way...so...after that..i recieved a text from him saying that he was there the whole time..and that he had been dissapointed in how I had talked to the girl..and he called me sad..and told me that my true colors had shown..but that made me even more mad..because I felt like what kind of friend was he to let her text me that in the first place..I mean what did he expect me to do..just let her call me all kinds of names and get away with it...a certain line was crossed..and she had no right...so I had told him that I didn't want to talk to him anymore..becuase I had done nothing to hurt him..and then he goes and pulls this..was I wrong for what I did or should I apologize to him??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

How do you know it was him that was texting you the second time? Even if it was, they are the ones that are sad, playing trifling games via text messaging.

Let it go, and find some grown-ups to be friends with.

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