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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I started college this school year, and have not had an easy time adjusting to it. My academics have gone well, and I love my major, but socially, I am a little lost. I recently noticed a girl occasionally glancing at me. I have seen her around (my school isn't large), but don't know even her name. We were in 1 class together last semester, and are in another this semester also. As such, I believe that we have similar interests (and possibly the same major). I don't have romantic interest in her, but would be happy to make a friend. I am not sure how to approach her, however, as I have never been good at this sort of thing, and am more than a little shy.Thank you.
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reader, bookserpent +, writes (20 January 2009):
If you are in a class together, you have the easiest conversational in-road of all. Wait until you see her somewhere outside of class, and approach her with a "Hey, aren't you in my _____ class? I thought so." Then ask for her insight or help on something class-related.
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reader, 209jess  +, writes (20 January 2009):
In the past i have met people similar to yourself who were a little shy... What i always do when making friends is try smiling at them a few times before actually going over them try making her laugh and asking what to in your work or something at school... even if you already know :-) x
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